Re: Feeling like no one likes you??

June 14, 2012

I don't get that feeling with *everyone*, but I definitely feel that I

can't get women to like me...

Eldred

On Thu, Jun 14, 2012 at 12:57 AM, lauren_elias@...

wrote:

> Does anyone get so sensitive to how everyone treats you and interacts with

you? I have a habit of taking everything personal and getting upset if I feel

like somebody doesn't like me. I immediately want to shout out " pay attention to

me or why don't you like me " . I am noticing a common theme in my life with work,

friends, family members of feeling like I am not appreciated or feeling

sensitive if not everyone likes me. Someone I feel flawed or like something is

wrong with me and I get afraid to stand up for myself because I am afraid of a

negative response. Can anyone relate?

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June 14, 2012

Hi :

I've been where you are and done a lot of work on this! It's

basically ego talking to you and once you detach from this you will be

set free. Wayne Dyer's work has helped me tremendously. Here is what

he says:

Your reputation is not located in you. It resides in the minds of

others. Therefore, you have no control over it at all. If you speak to

30 people, you will have 30 reputations. Connecting to intention means

listening to your heart and conducting yourself based on what your

inner voice tells you is your purpose here. If you’re overly concerned

with how you’re going to be perceived by everyone, then you’ve

disconnected yourself from intention and allowed the opinions of

others to guide you. This is your ego at work. It’s an illusion that

stands between you and the power of intention. There’s nothing you

can’t do, unless you disconnect from the power source and become

convinced that your purpose is to prove to others how masterful and

superior you are and spend your energy attempting to win a giant

reputation among other egos. Do what you do because your inner voice

always connected to and grateful to your Source-so directs you. Stay

on purpose, detach from outcome, and take responsibility for what does

reside in you: your character. Leave your reputation for others to

debate; it has nothing to do with you. Or as a book title says: What

You Think of Me Is None of My Business!

I hope this helps!

Hugs,

> Does anyone get so sensitive to how everyone treats you and

> interacts with you? I have a habit of taking everything personal and

> getting upset if I feel like somebody doesn't like me. I immediately

> want to shout out " pay attention to me or why don't you like me " . I

> am noticing a common theme in my life with work, friends, family

> members of feeling like I am not appreciated or feeling sensitive if

> not everyone likes me. Someone I feel flawed or like something is

> wrong with me and I get afraid to stand up for myself because I am

> afraid of a negative response. Can anyone relate?

>

June 14, 2012

Thank you for putting that out there and thank you for responding.

I love this and did not realize how much I needed to hear that.

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> > Does anyone get so sensitive to how everyone treats you and

> > interacts with you? I have a habit of taking everything personal and

> > getting upset if I feel like somebody doesn't like me. I immediately

> > want to shout out " pay attention to me or why don't you like me " . I

> > am noticing a common theme in my life with work, friends, family

> > members of feeling like I am not appreciated or feeling sensitive if

> > not everyone likes me. Someone I feel flawed or like something is

> > wrong with me and I get afraid to stand up for myself because I am

> > afraid of a negative response. Can anyone relate?

> >

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