Guest guest Posted January 11, 2008 Report Share Posted January 11, 2008 Hi !! First of all... never go the worst nightmare route... just try and take it one day at a time. Each new motor skill...a treasure. Each smile... also a treasure. We started early intervention with our son at about the same age...but our son has bilateral PMG... The ABSOLUTE best piece of advice too...is to get that little guy's information to Dr. Dobyns in Chicago... he is the national expert on PMG... we took to him a few years back (we live in Connecticut) It's going to be ok... keep up with the early intervention.... I'm glad to hear he has a g tube already...because that will probably help keep his weight up and give him the strength he needs to keep up that rolling and frolicking! I know that alot of these kids walk, talk, go to school, and live wonderful lives... so have hope. But take it one day at a time. I'm a 10 year veteran of PMG now.... seems hard to believe. I won't give you all the bad stuff.... but here is the good stuff: loves, plays, laughs, and sparkles handsomely at everyone he sees. His constant demeanor is that of a happy sweet guy...although he does have his moments. He is our joy, the focal point of our family, and has taught us how to live in world of wonders... and how to adapt to some of the biggest challenges that Mom's and Dad's can imagine. He has made us stronger...and we .... WE are the lucky ones to have been given him. No matter how hard it gets.... you learn to cope. But the one thing I promise you... you will experience more unconditional love, and meet more wonderful people....than you can ever imagine... I still remember when was a little baby... and I remember the fear. I guess I can just attest to the fact...that we survive...and thrive. With much love, , Mom to .. diffuse bilateral PMG 80%... swingline04 wrote: Hi, My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from the hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, smiling, rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy 1x per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he drank his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with the g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your worst nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar situation can e-mail me! Thanks in advance, In the middle of a difficulty lies opportunity. Einstein, Albert Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 12, 2008 Report Share Posted January 12, 2008 Hi - I know what you must be feeling right now...a lot of uncertainity and fear. Our daughter was also diagnosed with unilateral pmg (80% of the left side, non-genetic). We saw three neurologists, including Dobyns and were ofter told " to wait and see " . We started early intervention at 7months and she receives 3x pt and 3 ot each week. Grace i now 3 yrs old...she just started walking (she never crawled, rolled, etc.) and talks non stop. Her right arm/hand is challenged, but it improves slowly every day. She goes to preschool, takes ballet, and functions with her peers very well. And no seizures to date. So every case seems to have a mind of it's own, but keep the faith that these children can surprise you and thrive in life! Stay strong and best of luck! To: polymicrogyria@...: swingline04@...: Sat, 12 Jan 2008 02:24:23 +0000Subject: unilateral non-genetic polymicrogyria Hi,My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from the hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, smiling, rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy 1x per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he drank his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with the g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your worst nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar situation can e-mail me!Thanks in advance, _________________________________________________________________ Put your friends on the big screen with Windows Vista® + Windows Live™. http://www.microsoft.com/windows/shop/specialoffers.mspx?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_CPC_Medi\ aCtr_bigscreen_012008 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 12, 2008 Report Share Posted January 12, 2008 Hi , My son is 11 and has right unilateral pmg without any genetic link.? He did not have seizures until he was 5, but had mild hemiparesis/weakness on his left side from birth.? Eating was not an issue for my son until he was 8 when he lost 50 pounds becasue he was gagging so often due to seizure activity - drs at the time thought that it was becasue he didn't want to eat.? He is now a health 132 and they realize that they were wrong.? Why he started eating again we arent' sure - he did have a VNS implanted and an Ng tube for a few weeks, but the eating followed a reduction in meds - definitely not the only reason though becasue the gaggin started before the meds were increased.? anyway we got lucky.? He is happy and has friends.? Some days he is doing 5th grade math and reading and other days kindergarten is a stretch - depends on the seizure activity.? He has friends and we have been very fortunate. Every day is different and we never know what is coming next, but we do have hope that whatever it is he may overcome it.? I hope this helps some. Joanne ?Joanne unilateral non-genetic polymicrogyria Hi, My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from the hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, smiling, rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy 1x per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he drank his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with the g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your worst nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar situation can e-mail me! Thanks in advance, ________________________________________________________________________ More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - http://webmail.aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 12, 2008 Report Share Posted January 12, 2008 She just got up and walked? No rolling, no crawling? What about army crawling? Traci unilateral non-genetic polymicrogyria Hi,My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from the hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, smiling, rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy 1x per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he drank his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with the g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your worst nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar situation can e-mail me!Thanks in advance, _________________________________________________________________ Put your friends on the big screen with Windows Vista® + Windows Live™. http://www.microsoft.com/windows/shop/specialoffers.mspx?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_CPC_Medi\ aCtr_bigscreen_012008 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Guest guest Posted January 13, 2008 Report Share Posted January 13, 2008 Hello! This will actually be my first post! We found out Dec. 26, 2007 that our son, Braden, has right-sided PMG. He is 11 1/2 months old (he will be one Jan. 28th). We became worried when he was around 5 months old because he wasn't using his left hand. He would keep it fisted and wouldn't use it. We immediately called the state ECI program and they started us with Physical and Occupation Therapy once a week. We also meet with their Developmental Specialist as well. Early intervention is vital in brain development. The only motor skills we are seeing he has trouble with are the ones that require both arms to do the work (pulling up, crawling on all four-he is close though!). Since the diagnosis, we have started therapy twice a week and extended it to 45 minutes per session. Braden has really progressed wonderfully. He is really starting to use the left hand, today he even used that hand to try to stop me from sucking buggers out of his nose!! Funny, the things we appreciate! He is starting to realize that he has that hand/arm but is noticing that it doesn't really cooperate. Braden hasn't had any eating issues or seizures. That is the frustrating thing about this diagnosis is how each kid is unique in their abilities. Frustrating!!! We don't know what to expect. We have to keep close to a developmental specialist and watch those milestones. Braden is army crawling and has good balance. Pulling up is hard, as he only tries with one hand. So we are there to teach him to extend the left arm and teach him how to use it. The therapists for Braden are hopeful he will catch up. But we just don't know. We have to watch, and teach!! My husband and I do everything the therapists tell us to do CONSTANTLY!! We are also lucky to have my family in town, so my dad watches him three days a week when I go to work (I am a teacher) and he also works on those motor skills with him. The other two days he is at a home daycare. We have to rewire the brain. We have to make those connections that weren't made. It is possible, the brain is an amazing machine. WE have to do it though, not mother nature. ya know? Honestly, our son is making great strides. Every week when the therapists come (with the state program in Texas, they come to your home and do the sessions), they are amazed at his growth and can tell we follow through. So, my advice, watch those milestones, listen and do what the therapists say, and see a developmental specialist. We also get Botox on Jan. 21. It will open up that hand and we will begin a more intense therapy with that hand and how to use it. Cognitively, I think he is doing super. He is waving bye, bye, loves to play peek-a-boo, talks up a storm, loves books and pointing at all the pictures, etc. So far we are meeting our milestones there. Again, each child is unique. Our son, well, honestly if you were to meet him, you probably wouldn't even know anyhting was wrong. He looks perfectly normal. Is talking, eating, playing, INTO EVERYTHING, normal. We pray we will never have seizures but know we can't be in denial and need to look for the signs. When he starts school we will also have to watch closely...as the right brain is what kids use to learn how to read...so he may have learning disabilities. Careful care. What a gift we have from God. He has a bigger plan for our little ones. Seems unfair and I have begged God to burden me, not him, but it is what He has given us. I truly believe we are given what we can handle...We are good parents. Our babies are strong. Stay positive, this diagnosis will weigh on your heart, it is a wait and see. Stay strong for your little one!! I think when Braden meets milestones (like army crawling) we take it even more to heart, to know how much practice, work, patience, time, energy that little boy ALREADY has. He is going to be an amazing kid!! Yours will too!! > > Hi, > > My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral > polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord > paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that > everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from the > hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, smiling, > rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us > more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of > years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. > We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy 1x > per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, > he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he drank > his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with the > g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he > reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read > information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your worst > nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar > situation can e-mail me! > > Thanks in advance, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2008 Report Share Posted January 15, 2008 Hello & ...after reading your posts, I don't feel quite so alone anymore. Some days, it sure seems like your the only one dealing with this in the whole world! I have a beautiful and charming, 16 month old son with right-sided (unilateral) polymicrogyria (as well as a vascular birthmark known as CMTC or van Louhuizen Syndrome.) The unknowns are the hardest part! He has left hemiparesis as well - the fisting of his left hand, the lack of use, the weakness, the motor delays (he is very close to walking and actually took 13 steps on Friday!), we attend physical and occupational (OT) therapy, and of course have numerous doctors involved in his care. He has had abnormal EEG's and warnings to watch for seizures (thankfully nothing yet). Reading your messages almost mirrors our life! My son went last week for a mold for a rigid AFO...(Articulation Foot Orthotic??) to help keep his left foot in the proper position and to prevent the calf muscle from tightening...so again we are now enetering a new world in realtion to the brace. Yet another new world... Just today, I attended a " MusicKidz " class with him and came home in tears becaouse it was 'my' child that was 'different'. Please don't get me wrong, I am extremely proud of him, and how far he has come, and I am proud of myself as his mother in taking my observations, and gut instincts, very seriously, and taking him to the best doctors, but after all I am his mom, and as his mom, I only want the best for him, and the emotions occassionally overtake me; the fear, the worry, the anger, the frustration, the exhaustion! Some days it becomes too much and the littlest things can trigger me. Much like today at the music program. I had a good cry and know that tomorrow will be a better day,and the music class next week will be easier. It was our first 'kids program' in the real world. I have chosen to stay at home with him (as well as my 2 older daughters) and know very few people in the area with little ones - so it was adifferent environment and a new experiencefor both of us. I am beginning to understand that the 'unknowns' and the 'firsts' are definitely the hardest! Any advice in that department? , you mentioned that your son looks fine, and if no one knew what he had they wouldn't be any wiser, that is like my son too. Unless you knew what to look for, at first it would be hard to tell, unless of course you were to watch him for awhile, then you would probably pick up on it. You mentioned that he is crawling 'army' style - we called it 'commando crawl'. What we did to help him bend his left leg (as that was the leg that he was dragging) was at first to hold the right knee, to prevent him from bending it, and then he would bend his left leg, but because I couldn't chase him around the house all day holding his right knee/leg, I went to a orthotic specalist and told him my idea of making a knee brace (for his right knee) to prevent him from bending it so that he had to bend his left knee/leg for movement. I only wanted to use the brace for 5 - 10 minutes a day, a couple times a day, to help create those paths in his brain needed to to bend his left leg. My theory worked (with the support of a good orthotic specialist and family doctor) and with two weeks of doing that he was crawling on all fours!!! If I were to do it again, I would have added a heel cup,because he tended to push off with his right foot, even thought he couldn't bend his leg. I've rattled on much too long but I hope that some of what I have written helps; I know it has helped me to get some of it out and to share my experiences so far. Again, it is comforting to know that we are not alone in our experiences and that we are only an e-mail away > > > > Hi, > > > > My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral > > polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord > > paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that > > everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from > the > > hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, > smiling, > > rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us > > more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of > > years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. > > We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy > 1x > > per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, > > he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he > drank > > his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with > the > > g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he > > reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read > > information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your > worst > > nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar > > situation can e-mail me! > > > > Thanks in advance, > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 Hi there, Braden sounds very similar to my son , except that his is the opposite side. We noticed first when he was about 4-5 months because he would grab his right hand with his left hand to do things like suck on it, or whatever. He was started pretty soon thereafter with PT and OT once a week and had his MRI when he was about 6 months old. He made all his milestones in normal range, sitting up, crawling (monkey crawl one-sided), and now walking.He is now almost 16 months old and quite a chatterbox and a very bright little boy. We took him to see Dr. Dobyns in Chicago over Thanksgiving which was a huge help. He knows everything it seems, and was very comforting to listen to, in the fact that at least someone has some anwsers. hasn't had any seizures to this day (thank goodness) and hopefully he never will. Dr. Dobyns said 80% of diagnosed have seizures. We pray for him every day and know that we are very blessed that his case is so mild. Dr. Dobyns told us we are best case scenerio, and for that we thank God. I had just read your e-mail and noticed many similarities with your Braden. How old is he now? Also you said he is trying to pull up, how long has he been trying? I was amazed how just one day realized in order to pull up he had to have his other hand up there for leverage. After that he has done it ever since. Also at first never reached out for anything with his right hand and now he will reach and open his hand to grab, sometimes he gets it sometimes not but he is learning how to grasp items and release so well now. It's amazing how smart kids are. I would love to hear more about Braden. Thanks for writing, Kandis check out our family blog www.froebefam.blogspot.com > > > > Hi, > > > > My son is 5 months old with non-genetic,right side unilateral > > polymicrogyria.He has a trach because of idiopathic vocal cord > > paralysis and a g-button. I have been reading all the mail that > > everyone writes in and I am scared! Since we've had him home from > the > > hospital he seems to be doing so much better with tracking, > smiling, > > rolling over, etc.. I was wondering if anyone out there can give us > > more insight as to what to possibly expect over the next couple of > > years. Currently, we are very proactive in getting therapy for him. > > We go to a swallowing specialist 1x per week, occupational therapy > 1x > > per week and we have been to 2 physical therapy sessions. Recently, > > he seems to have a renewed interest in the bottle. Tonight, he > drank > > his entire meal in one sitting without having to supplement with > the > > g-button. Our neurologist doesn't have a lot of answers " until he > > reaches or doesn't reach certain milestones. " When we read > > information on the internet it is anything from nothing to your > worst > > nightmare. It would be greatly appreciated if anyone with a similar > > situation can e-mail me! > > > > Thanks in advance, > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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