Guest guest Posted October 10, 2011 Report Share Posted October 10, 2011 they believe all meds a dr. give is bad for you . they think i should have her on herbs . they think it even a herb that will cure cancer . they feel we are hurt her by give her the meds . my dd is 10 but she know how to take her meds . if they would have let her she can take it by her self . if they don't want to give it to her . my dd is happy on her meds she remember how she was before she start take them . she had bad thoughts all day long . now with meds it down to 1 or2 a day . her grads have went up she was make c before . now with not so many bad thoughts she is make As . she has told her friends and none look down on her for it . her friend will help her when she see what she fears . ________________________________ To: Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 8:13 AM Subject: Re: inlaws  Would thy not give her meds if she were diabetic? The other bad thing is that is sends the message to your daughter that meds are something bad or to be ashamed of! It heartbreaking for any parent to put their kids on meds...But its amazing how they can help! Best of luck > > That is preposterous. It can't be good for your child's body and equilibrium to be off for two days after normally being on them. I would eliminate sleep-overs and let them spend time with your kids during the day. > > > > > inlaws > > > > > > kids went to stay at inlaws house for the weekend . when they get home dd told me that inlaws would not let her take her meds . so she went 2 days with out her meds . 2 of the pills you have to come of slow . i know inlaw don't like it we are give her meds . we hear about this every week . but they have not ever said or did this to dd before . i am so mad about this right now . the inlaws did not see dd when the ocd start or how bad it get with her . what would you do if this was you ? as if right now i am think no over night stay agine . > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 10, 2011 Report Share Posted October 10, 2011 that is terrible, when my daughter goes off her meds it takes her a couple of days to recover, how is she doing From: B Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 6:13 AM To: Subject: Re: inlaws Would thy not give her meds if she were diabetic? Ugh...If sure would be nice if the Dr. could somehow set them straight... The other bad thing is that is sends the message to your daughter that meds are something bad or to be ashamed of! It heartbreaking for any parent to put their kids on meds...But its amazing how they can help! Best of luck > > That is preposterous. It can't be good for your child's body and equilibrium to be off for two days after normally being on them. I would eliminate sleep-overs and let them spend time with your kids during the day. > > > > > inlaws > > > > > > kids went to stay at inlaws house for the weekend . when they get home dd told me that inlaws would not let her take her meds . so she went 2 days with out her meds . 2 of the pills you have to come of slow . i know inlaw don't like it we are give her meds . we hear about this every week . but they have not ever said or did this to dd before . i am so mad about this right now . the inlaws did not see dd when the ocd start or how bad it get with her . what would you do if this was you ? as if right now i am think no over night stay agine . > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 they believe that any meds a dr. give you is poison your body . they would tell you every one was a lot better off before the dr. step in . i know some herbs are good for you . but herbs are not going to help ever thing . my dd is happy with what she on right now . ________________________________ To: Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2011 8:09 PM Subject: Re: inlaws  Many herbs are medicines. they just aren't prepared and pulverized into a tablet or marketed as meds and so the FDA doesn't legislate them as such. For example willow bark is salicylic acid, commonly known as aspirin. Foxglove is digitalis, a potent cardiotonic. Ma huang is the precursor to ephedrine. Some vitamins are stored in the body and can be toxic. I'm all for patients taking control of their health, and I very much believe in the mind/body connection, but you have to be careful and knowledgeable. >  > > Would thy not give her meds if she were diabetic? The other bad thing is that is sends the message to your daughter that meds are something bad or to be ashamed of! It heartbreaking for any parent to put their kids on meds...But its amazing how they can help! > Best of luck > > > > > > > That is preposterous. It can't be good for your child's body and equilibrium to be off for two days after normally being on them. I would eliminate sleep-overs and let them spend time with your kids during the day. > > > > > > > > > > inlaws > > > > > > > > > > > > kids went to stay at inlaws house for the weekend . when they get home dd told me that inlaws would not let her take her meds . so she went 2 days with out her meds . 2 of the pills you have to come of slow . i know inlaw don't like it we are give her meds . we hear about this every week . but they have not ever said or did this to dd before . i am so mad about this right now . the inlaws did not see dd when the ocd start or how bad it get with her . what would you do if this was you ? as if right now i am think no over night stay agine . > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 she do better . she said she feel better . ________________________________ To: Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 5:19 PM Subject: Re: Re: inlaws  that is terrible, when my daughter goes off her meds it takes her a couple of days to recover, how is she doing From: B Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 6:13 AM To: Subject: Re: inlaws Would thy not give her meds if she were diabetic? Ugh...If sure would be nice if the Dr. could somehow set them straight... The other bad thing is that is sends the message to your daughter that meds are something bad or to be ashamed of! It heartbreaking for any parent to put their kids on meds...But its amazing how they can help! Best of luck > > That is preposterous. It can't be good for your child's body and equilibrium to be off for two days after normally being on them. I would eliminate sleep-overs and let them spend time with your kids during the day. > > > > > inlaws > > > > > > kids went to stay at inlaws house for the weekend . when they get home dd told me that inlaws would not let her take her meds . so she went 2 days with out her meds . 2 of the pills you have to come of slow . i know inlaw don't like it we are give her meds . we hear about this every week . but they have not ever said or did this to dd before . i am so mad about this right now . the inlaws did not see dd when the ocd start or how bad it get with her . what would you do if this was you ? as if right now i am think no over night stay agine . > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 she do better . she said she feel better . ________________________________ To: Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 5:19 PM Subject: Re: Re: inlaws  that is terrible, when my daughter goes off her meds it takes her a couple of days to recover, how is she doing From: B Sent: Monday, October 10, 2011 6:13 AM To: Subject: Re: inlaws Would thy not give her meds if she were diabetic? Ugh...If sure would be nice if the Dr. could somehow set them straight... The other bad thing is that is sends the message to your daughter that meds are something bad or to be ashamed of! It heartbreaking for any parent to put their kids on meds...But its amazing how they can help! Best of luck > > That is preposterous. It can't be good for your child's body and equilibrium to be off for two days after normally being on them. I would eliminate sleep-overs and let them spend time with your kids during the day. > > > > > inlaws > > > > > > kids went to stay at inlaws house for the weekend . when they get home dd told me that inlaws would not let her take her meds . so she went 2 days with out her meds . 2 of the pills you have to come of slow . i know inlaw don't like it we are give her meds . we hear about this every week . but they have not ever said or did this to dd before . i am so mad about this right now . the inlaws did not see dd when the ocd start or how bad it get with her . what would you do if this was you ? as if right now i am think no over night stay agine . > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2011 Report Share Posted October 11, 2011 at 1st she did not want to see the dr . or take any thing but she said she would try it . after a month she was happy that she try it .all her bad thoughts where that she would get killed or die . now that she on meds she just has a few of them bad thoughts . but as long as she is happy where she is . then i am happy and down the road if she want to try other way i will be fine with it . but i don't see how the other would stop the bad thoughts . ________________________________ To: Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2011 4:30 PM Subject: Re: inlaws  If any future overnights, maybe you can put her next 2 dosages, etc., in some little baggy or pillbox and let her pack them with her other stuff. Then she could take it herself since you said she does fine by herself re taking them. So glad the medication is helping, my son (who refuses meds) has bad thoughts too. So far there is no herb or vitamin that works for everyone for OCD. I know each SSRI OCD medication also affects people differently but they do target OCD at the right dosage and her's is working so why rock the boat? Way on down the road (or river re that boat remark!) you can see if she still needs it. ((hugs)) > > they believe all meds a dr. give is bad for you . they think i should have her on herbs . they think it even a herb that will cure cancer . they feel we are hurt her by give her the meds . my dd is 10 but she know how to take her meds . if they would have let her she can take it by her self . if they don't want to give it to her . my dd is happy on her meds she remember how she was before she start take them . she had bad thoughts all day long . now with meds it down to 1 or2 a day . her grads have went up she was make c before . now with not so many bad thoughts she is make As . she has told her friends and none look down on her for it . her friend will help her when she see what she fears . > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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