Re: Dr. Chansky -- REPLY to golightning2010

April 16, 2012

Hello,

I think that you are really on track, but I'm puzzled why the Therapist is

stuck. The content is right there. Does she know OCD? This is exactly what needs

to happen-- playing with the religious doubt (in a respectful way-- respectful

of your religion and your family, not respectful of OCD). I would discuss with

the therapist and if she isn't experienced with this, you will need to find

another therapist. Meanwhile, talking to a chaplain who understands OCD can be a

great experience. If the person does not understand OCD then it can make things

worse, so maybe that's what your older daughter is concerned about. Just ask

about his experience with OCD- if the answers sound good to you, then could be

very helpful. Remember the issue is the doubt. Religion is not the problem, it's

OCD making her feel like she needs certainty (about her faith, her beliefs,

proof of her religion etc).

Best to you,

Tamar Chansky

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> My 17 year old daughter was recently diagnosed with Religous OCD. Your book

was recommended by her pscyhologist which I've read. She has had six sessions,

and is on Cipralex. Her psych just told her that she (the Dr.) was 'stuck'. She

does not want to broach religous discussion with her at all. At first I thought

ok but now wonder how she can effectively treat her with CBT if she doesn't

explore/address her religous fears directly. My daughter says it is the crux of

her distress and at home we've tried to talk her through her fears in effort to

satisfy her insatiable questions. My daughter wants to talk to a school chaplain

or minister but I am very reticent. My older daughter who had professional

therapy for OCD (non-religous)thinks this is a bad idea - and thus far is the

only one who has been able to engage her effectively in addressing her religous

questions. I'm not sure what to do. Any suggestions please? Thanks very much...

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