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[Guest guest]

Hi Sondra,

My also sees A and B that you are referring to. B did not ask us if we

wanted to continue with him at the new place, but I did ask him if we could

because I find him to be a great counselor for her. I doubt that A can provide

individual counseling for her because he is so busy with his groups and I don't

think she has the rapport with the other counselor there. I really don't know

much about the ethics concerned, but I'd like to continue with both. I imagine

that the reason for him leaving is more of a business/ financial reason. He

gave me a formal letter about his leaving, but it was somewhat vague. I'm not

sure what we will do, but I like and respect both parties.

Michele

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debi forgot to add that to me did not understand the issues of this

in complete until freind A began to question me some on freind B

yesterday. it gave me a feel that friend A is of very concerned over

some things that friend B must be of doing and so this is why it

triggered to me that maybe the friendship is of a bad things too to

friend B because freind A was asking so many questions to me on my

exiting conult with freind B. Friend A shared that several of the

clients shared to freind A who is of the boss of this buisiness that

they are of going to continue seeking counseling with freind B at

hims new place and this is of how friend A found out about freind B's

taking the clients away to hims new place. but friend B only asked if

they wanted of to continue that is of an option they had but it would

be at hims other new place. he to asked of me this too. I to just

felt that he was of giving parents and clients options and did not

understand that was of not correct protocal for exiting out of a

business to go to another. I to lacked knowing of the social things

to that. But that is is of seen to be of bad choices, but freind B

felt it was of ethical and right if the clients wanted of to continue

seeking of hims work to them. I to see of both views being of correct

and so lack how to resolve in my own mind what is of happening. both

of these men were of a good team and both worked so well together and

lack how they are of no longer at that level in this life.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Hi Sondra,

My also sees A and B that you are referring to. B did not ask us if we

wanted to continue with him at the new place, but I did ask him if we could

because I find him to be a great counselor for her. I doubt that A can provide

individual counseling for her because he is so busy with his groups and I don't

think she has the rapport with the other counselor there. I really don't know

much about the ethics concerned, but I'd like to continue with both. I imagine

that the reason for him leaving is more of a business/ financial reason. He

gave me a formal letter about his leaving, but it was somewhat vague. I'm not

sure what we will do, but I like and respect both parties.

Michele

***SPAM***(6.6) Re: off topic

debi forgot to add that to me did not understand the issues of this

in complete until freind A began to question me some on freind B

yesterday. it gave me a feel that friend A is of very concerned over

some things that friend B must be of doing and so this is why it

triggered to me that maybe the friendship is of a bad things too to

friend B because freind A was asking so many questions to me on my

exiting conult with freind B. Friend A shared that several of the

clients shared to freind A who is of the boss of this buisiness that

they are of going to continue seeking counseling with freind B at

hims new place and this is of how friend A found out about freind B's

taking the clients away to hims new place. but friend B only asked if

they wanted of to continue that is of an option they had but it would

be at hims other new place. he to asked of me this too. I to just

felt that he was of giving parents and clients options and did not

understand that was of not correct protocal for exiting out of a

business to go to another. I to lacked knowing of the social things

to that. But that is is of seen to be of bad choices, but freind B

felt it was of ethical and right if the clients wanted of to continue

seeking of hims work to them. I to see of both views being of correct

and so lack how to resolve in my own mind what is of happening. both

of these men were of a good team and both worked so well together and

lack how they are of no longer at that level in this life.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

Hi Sondra,

My also sees A and B that you are referring to. B did not ask us if we

wanted to continue with him at the new place, but I did ask him if we could

because I find him to be a great counselor for her. I doubt that A can provide

individual counseling for her because he is so busy with his groups and I don't

think she has the rapport with the other counselor there. I really don't know

much about the ethics concerned, but I'd like to continue with both. I imagine

that the reason for him leaving is more of a business/ financial reason. He

gave me a formal letter about his leaving, but it was somewhat vague. I'm not

sure what we will do, but I like and respect both parties.

Michele

***SPAM***(6.6) Re: off topic

debi forgot to add that to me did not understand the issues of this

in complete until freind A began to question me some on freind B

yesterday. it gave me a feel that friend A is of very concerned over

some things that friend B must be of doing and so this is why it

triggered to me that maybe the friendship is of a bad things too to

friend B because freind A was asking so many questions to me on my

exiting conult with freind B. Friend A shared that several of the

clients shared to freind A who is of the boss of this buisiness that

they are of going to continue seeking counseling with freind B at

hims new place and this is of how friend A found out about freind B's

taking the clients away to hims new place. but friend B only asked if

they wanted of to continue that is of an option they had but it would

be at hims other new place. he to asked of me this too. I to just

felt that he was of giving parents and clients options and did not

understand that was of not correct protocal for exiting out of a

business to go to another. I to lacked knowing of the social things

to that. But that is is of seen to be of bad choices, but freind B

felt it was of ethical and right if the clients wanted of to continue

seeking of hims work to them. I to see of both views being of correct

and so lack how to resolve in my own mind what is of happening. both

of these men were of a good team and both worked so well together and

lack how they are of no longer at that level in this life.

Sondra

[Guest guest]

michelle yes I to forgot of you being of here and this is of what B

told of me too that many of the clients did be to ask , we were asked

by B of what we wanted as our options and for me didnot want of to go

to any of the other options either but also did not want of to

transfer of the one to one setting for me and missy to a new building

so we opted to do none of the options. this is where B shared to me

that if I to wanted we can be to be of friends and be of to gave of

me ways to reach of him via email to be of just friends in.

I to also not like being aware of both of the issues but because am

of aware of them it makes of me have much added stress because I to

care so much for both too. I to understand what you mean he is of a

great counselor and has much skills of being able to reach us with

autism, but at the same person A has so much of the back ground and

history of is the key to the things person B knows and has been to

learn.

I to felt the way it was of shared to me was of respectful by person

B of my options and such and was not of done in a way I to felt

unsure of... but when person A shared of hims concerns it caused me

to think maybe something bad is of happening and it caused of me

fear. i to want to be of friends with person B but not seek of him

out for counseling. one the insurance of me is of already making of

special accomodations for me to be seen by person A as he is of an

out of network person for me and so felt if purused another person my

insurance might say then you not need of person A. so to me that

would be of more hard for me to cope so did not even pursue of the

option to continue of the one to one with B.

thanks to understand of all this and be of respect to not disclose of

these people by names as to me that is of not a fair things but this

way for me can seek of answers and support in a way that is of

respectful because this is of very hurtful to me right now.

Sondra