advice for how to talk to son

[Guest guest]

I was wondering what to say to my son while at inpatient treatment. They said

he's still working on showering & brushing teeth & has some anxiety coming out

of shower. They haven't tried putting on his regular clothes yet. I don't want

to sound like he's at summer camp, or to put pressure on him, or to sound

uncaring. " I know you're working hard. I'm proud of you. It's not easy what

you're doing. " ????

I have just talked to him a few minutes on the phone but we have a family

meeting today where I will see him.

tks

Rhonda