Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 Their Hoover vacuum cleaners NEVER break or fall apart, huh? Hang in there! SmileS! Carol Hania wrote: > > I should have cut nada off. I really never thought she would write > back or want to still communicate with me. I thought I would be > split all bad and she would leave me alone. > > Now I am going to have to go through the process (of cutting nada out > of my life) all over again. I don't want any contact at all - not > even a letter. > > I feel like I'm being held hostage again. > Hania (who is dreading going to the mailbox) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 I understand....I got back on the same stupid merry-go-round and it hurts almost as bad as it did before. I guess it's like Edith said ....no closure...it just keeps going and hurting. there is no resolution and no way to " solve " the problem. With jerks, you can leave em alone, spouses you can divorce, but nadas are permanently in our past and present....even if we don't talk to them. Ilene Hania wrote: > I should have cut nada off. I really never thought she would write > back or want to still communicate with me. I thought I would be split > all bad and she would leave me alone. > > Now I am going to have to go through the process (of cutting nada out > of my life) all over again. I don't want any contact at all - not > even a letter. > > I feel like I'm being held hostage again. > Hania (who is dreading going to the mailbox) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 I know, I often wish mine were dead. Hania Re: I am so mad at myself I understand....I got back on the same stupid merry-go-round and it hurts almost as bad as it did before. I guess it's like Edith said ...no closure...it just keeps going and hurting. there is no resolution and no way to " solve " the problem. With jerks, you can leave em alone, spouses you can divorce, but nadas are permanently in our past and present....even if we don't talk to them. Ilene Hania wrote: > I should have cut nada off. I really never thought she would write > back or want to still communicate with me. I thought I would be split > all bad and she would leave me alone. > > Now I am going to have to go through the process (of cutting nada out > of my life) all over again. I don't want any contact at all - not > even a letter. > > I feel like I'm being held hostage again. > Hania (who is dreading going to the mailbox) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 Their Hoover vacuum cleaners NEVER break or fall apart, huh? Hang in there! >>Maybe so, but I can refuse to be sucked in. My resolve is stronger than its ever been. Nada doesn't know the new me. Hania Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 21, 2002 Report Share Posted November 21, 2002 You go, girl!!! SmileS! Carol Hania wrote: > > Their Hoover vacuum cleaners NEVER break or fall apart, huh? Hang in > there! > > >>Maybe so, but I can refuse to be sucked in. My resolve is stronger than its ever been. Nada doesn't know the new me. > Hania Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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