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Hi, welcome!

I won't be much help on this but wanted to comment that my

HFA/Aspergers son, , now 14.5 and in 9th grade, tends to go

thru this but it's due to his OCD I think.

His Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder is his primary problem regarding

doing his schoolwork. He'll have months where he's mostly fine, but

later in the year it's like he's burnt out, his OCD behaviors are

worse. I've always put it down to the stress of the schoolwork and

year finally catching up to him.

We have a 504 Plan in place for him to accommodate times like that.

Does your son have a 504 Plan or an IEP in place at school?

With , I can't say he's different at home so far as anything

but his ability to do his work and increased OCD compulsions, etc.

Do you think your son might go thru periods of depression maybe as

teenage years are tough!

> I am new to this group and am looking for advice please. I have 2

> children with autism spectrum disorders, my older son is 17, a

senior

> in high school. since he was young, he has gone through these

> periods when he just shuts down, by the end of the day he can

barely

> manage a conversation, stops attempting eye contact, is unable to

> complete homework, participate in the family, gets upset and

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> I am new to this group and am looking for advice please. I have 2

> children with autism spectrum disorders, my older son is 17, a

senior

> in high school. since he was young, he has gone through these

> periods when he just shuts down, by the end of the day he can

barely

> manage a conversation, stops attempting eye contact, is unable to

> complete homework, participate in the family, gets upset and

> frustrated. When he is not in this funk, he does very well, grades

> are good, participated in school and family activities etc. I can't

> find anything that sets this off. The last one was terrible, lasted

> almost 4 mo and blew his GPA. Anyone else's kids do this and have

you

> found anything that helps or what works to help kids stay on track

> during these times. The doc put him on wellburtin to see if it

helped

> at all but...

Yes, my ds is like this. I had two thoughts. One, my ds does this

when he is just completely stressed out. First, you must change the

environment or make it easier for him to cope with his day. Does he

need an aide to help him along? Does he need frequent breaks just to

get up and move and expel some pent up energy? Does he need help in

particular classes? Are kids teasing him? There are a number of

things to think of. Think of it as he has only so much to give per

day and once he uses it up, he's done and can't do anymore than

that. This is what happens.

Second is to investigate if he is depressed and having cycles of

depression. This might compound the every day stresses that he deals

with. With my ds, when he was much younger, he took zoloft (any

SSRI, there are a lot of them out there these days)and it really did

help him to cope better with the every day stuff. His anxiety level

went way down.

Roxanna

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Hi all! I don't get a chance to post much anymore, but try to at

least read everything that's going on. My two children have been on

the protocol for quite some time now. My youngest, Skyler, has had

horrible diarrhea for quite some time now. Dr. G and I have been

working with his diet, etc., but nothing seems to be working. Does

anyone have any suggestions? Has anyone encountered this? He's

taking kyodophilus as a probiotic.

My oldest, Chaia, is 8 years old. She is a fluent reader on a 2nd

grade level. However, in the past two weeks, she has started

eliminating the long vowels from words that she reads and

substituting a short vowel in its place. We've been through a time

in the past when she refused to say number words, but never this.

Then to top it all off, last night when we were going over her

spelling words, she started spelling them phonetically. I can't get

her to say the letters. I had her to type them on the computer and

she got them all right, so I don't understand the reason for this.

I've addressed her issues behaviorally and it doesn't seem to be

working. Dr. G has reduced her Zoloft to see if that will happen.

She's also screaming bye to everything that she doesn't want to do.

Thanks for listening guys! I would appreciate any and all advice.

I stay in really close contact with Dr. G's office, but sometimes in

the past I've gotten great advice and suggestions from Mom's and

Dad's who are struggling with some of the same issues.

Take care and God bless.

Shona

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Shona,

Please email me off list krnardini@....

Kristy

need advice please

Hi all! I don't get a chance to post much anymore, but try to at

least read everything that's going on. My two children have been on

the protocol for quite some time now. My youngest, Skyler, has had

horrible diarrhea for quite some time now. Dr. G and I have been

working with his diet, etc., but nothing seems to be working. Does

anyone have any suggestions? Has anyone encountered this? He's

taking kyodophilus as a probiotic.

My oldest, Chaia, is 8 years old. She is a fluent reader on a 2nd

grade level. However, in the past two weeks, she has started

eliminating the long vowels from words that she reads and

substituting a short vowel in its place. We've been through a time

in the past when she refused to say number words, but never this.

Then to top it all off, last night when we were going over her

spelling words, she started spelling them phonetically. I can't get

her to say the letters. I had her to type them on the computer and

she got them all right, so I don't understand the reason for this.

I've addressed her issues behaviorally and it doesn't seem to be

working. Dr. G has reduced her Zoloft to see if that will happen.

She's also screaming bye to everything that she doesn't want to do.

Thanks for listening guys! I would appreciate any and all advice.

I stay in really close contact with Dr. G's office, but sometimes in

the past I've gotten great advice and suggestions from Mom's and

Dad's who are struggling with some of the same issues.

Take care and God bless.

Shona

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Hi Shona,

Some bright parent here in the past suggested changing up probiotics

now and then. My son used to be on Kyo and I switched him to a

straight acidophilus about a year ago. It helped his stools firm

up. Here is a link to the one I found with a pretty good price:

http://www.webvitamins.com/product.aspx?id=8734

Another bright parent also emailed me about some school problems we

were having. She suggested the Paxil and wellbutrin he was on, after

building up in his system over time, were having a negative effect.

(He was very iritable and defiant.) He was on Paxil for 5 months, and

things got worse after 3 months. I do not if this was the case or

not, but he seems better now after 2 weeks going back to Prozac.

Also he was on an antibiotic for 3 weeks....post nasal drip. While

he didn't have a full blown sinus infection, the antibiotic

definitely made him feel better, be less defiant too. It always

does.

Some food for thought.

I am glad Dr G is trying to lower the dose of Zoloft. Let us know

how it turns out.

>

> Hi all! I don't get a chance to post much anymore, but try to at

> least read everything that's going on. My two children have been

on

> the protocol for quite some time now. My youngest, Skyler, has had

> horrible diarrhea for quite some time now. Dr. G and I have been

> working with his diet, etc., but nothing seems to be working. Does

> anyone have any suggestions? Has anyone encountered this? He's

> taking kyodophilus as a probiotic.

>

> My oldest, Chaia, is 8 years old. She is a fluent reader on a 2nd

> grade level. However, in the past two weeks, she has started

> eliminating the long vowels from words that she reads and

> substituting a short vowel in its place. We've been through a time

> in the past when she refused to say number words, but never this.

> Then to top it all off, last night when we were going over her

> spelling words, she started spelling them phonetically. I can't

get

> her to say the letters. I had her to type them on the computer and

> she got them all right, so I don't understand the reason for this.

> I've addressed her issues behaviorally and it doesn't seem to be

> working. Dr. G has reduced her Zoloft to see if that will happen.

> She's also screaming bye to everything that she doesn't want to do.

>

> Thanks for listening guys! I would appreciate any and all advice.

> I stay in really close contact with Dr. G's office, but sometimes

in

> the past I've gotten great advice and suggestions from Mom's and

> Dad's who are struggling with some of the same issues.

>

> Take care and God bless.

>

> Shona

>

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  • 2 years later...

I already have the super duper cards, but thanks for the other info:)

Patty

, " trmckenna1 " <trmckenna1@...> wrote:

>

> I had no luck finding the answer for what age children should master

> regular/irregular past tense verbs. Have you talked with his

> teacher? You could also call the private SLP and get more information

> from her.

>

> The links below can give you ideas for working on verbs at home.

> There are sample pages you can print. You can make flash cards with

> index cards using the cards below as examples. There are a couple of

> examples of games you can make. Mad Libs might also be fun for making

> a story and practicing.

>

> HTH,

> Tina

>

> http://www.superduperinc.com/products/view.aspx?pid=FD104

>

> Related Products

> Active & Passive Verbs

> Irregular Verbs Fun Deck

> Regular Past Tense Verbs

>

> http://www.superduperinc.com/search/search.aspx

> other products for learning verbs

>

> http://www.education.com/worksheet/article/the-time-machine/

> this is a cross word puzzle that you could do together. It says that

> it came out of a workbook for 3rd grade, but you could simplify it

> for his age.

>

>

> >

> > At what age should children be pronouncing regular/irregular past

> > tense verbs correctly? My son is 6 and he still isn't. Is there a

> > website or book anyone can recommend that can tell me where my son

> > should be at with his speech/language? He is supposed to be

> getting a

> > 20 minute consult by his school's SLP once a month. I had told her

> > about the past tense verbs that he's still not getting and she said

> > that it's developmental and they should get it by 3rd grade. He is

> in

> > Kindergarten. However, I was taking him to a private SLP for

> therapy

> > last year, but stopped last spring because he was doing so well.

> She

> > did tell me though, that if he wasn't getting the regular past tense

> > verbs by that summer, I should bring him back for more therapy. I

> > never took him back because we just can't afford it (we were paying

> > out of pocket).

> >

> > Also, he had been diagnosed with apraxia and a phonological disorder

> > before, so when the school's SLP says it's developmental, I am kind

> of

> > skeptical. I know they don't want to give him any therapy because

> of

> > their budget, and last time I talked to her she said he was

> > communicating appropriately when she observed him, but me & my

> husband

> > still have concerns. What is it going to take to get some therapy

> > from them? Am I going to have to wait until the 3rd grade for them

> to

> > give him therapy if he still isn't saying the verbs right because my

> > husband is unemployed right now and we cannot afford an advocate or

> > lawyer.

> >

>

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