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Hi Robin. Below is a link I know of for people divorcing bpd's. I'm

sure there are even more resources. From what I have heard from

others it could definitely get ugly. Some people have had false

accusations filed, making the kids choose between the parents, smear

campaigns,etc. I hope this link helps. The worst thing is when a

parent puts the children in the middle and makes them choose or bad

mouths the other parent. A friend of mine divorced a bpd and he is

also disputing the custody decision and he HATES my friend. I don't

think the kids are even allowed to say her name. It is pretty ugly. I

hope things go better for you. But I would be prepared and document

anything significant. Good luck -

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOdivorcing/

> Hello.

> I am a mother of three kids, 11, 10, 3. I have been married 13

years to a

> man who has many, almost all, of the bpd traits.

> I filed for divorce 3 months ago, he moved out 2 months ago. He

contesting

> the divorce and custody.

> I want to learn all i can, so that i can be the best parent to my

kids.

> As of this moment, they do not want to visit with him alone.

Since there

> has not been a temporary hearing/temporary orders, the kids can

include him in

> whatever (public) activities they choose, in my presence.

> 11yo son is very angry at his father. he tried to tell his father

why he

> doesn't want to see him. dad said your mother told you to say

that. son got mad

> saying mom didn't tell me to say that and i'm sick of you blaming

everything

> on mom.

> 9 yo daughter pretends everything will be ok. feels sorry for

dad. she's

> afraid to tell dad how she feels for fear he'll get angry and

become mean again

> (since being served with divorce papers, he's trying to become

father of the

> year)

> 3 yo son seems to be doing well. has nightmares and is generally

just a

> bossy 3 yr old.

>

> i hope to learn alot on this list that will benefit my precious

kids.

>

> robin

> trying to find kansas in texas

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

You need to see a nutritional healer. Back a hundred

or two years ago they called this kind of herbal

healing witchcraft if you wer white or injun medicine

but there is a new branch of it coming around now. It

is bacally in two forms one used drops and the other

uses traditional herbs ina a pellet form of if you

live in an area that has a Chinese element you can go

that route with traditional Chinese herbs.

I was on the drop method a year or so ago but my

practisioner didn not have enough experience with

persons as damaged as I am. My chiropractor statted

doing it a year ago so I am now geting the herb

treatment from him.

[Guest guest]

Colin,

Your symptoms sound like what my 6 year old son has. He has had stomach pain

(main symptom) for several months on and off. Also diarrhea and constipation,

or loose but formed stools, and always pale stools. Bloating, belching, passing

gas, headaches and leg and arm pain, lately. Does this sound familiar to you?

He is seeing a pediatric GI dr on Wedesday and having an endoscopy on Thursday.

I think she suspects reflux from reading his file.

T.

new

I have been told I have IBS. I find it scary and frustrating. It started

with a trauma 5 mths ago.

I thought it was getting better(it was at it's worst in November).

My symptoms are discomfort in my gut and stomach. Feeling full of air

but not burping, or bloated and burping/ farting.

[Guest guest]

Colin,

I have had IBS for years. A few months ago started having more discomfort.

Doc did a cat scan and found diverticulitis. Maybe have that checked out.

Vickie

Tadjiki wrote:

Colin,

Your symptoms sound like what my 6 year old son has. He has had stomach pain

(main symptom) for several months on and off. Also diarrhea and constipation, or

loose but formed stools, and always pale stools.