Re: Does everyone here still believe its Autism? I DO!

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Ok:

Well, I am the sternest voice of opposition to parents who chose denial

instead of pro-active, hands-on intervention for their kids.

Yes you are in denial...flat simply...accept that you are in denial so you

can stop looking for what you wish to hear.

This condition is also about you. If your child was diagnosed with a mild

form of autism then he hast it...and your entire family too. Denying the

opportunity of providing cerebral and behavioral re-training to your child in

unjustifiable. ...

You are the communicating medium of your child, open all your senses so you

can absorb the great help you can get from professionals and the broad

supporting community. Yes, including brilliant Dr. Golberg.

What right do I have to talk to you like this?...Well for starters I am 50,

the father of a set of identical twin boys who were not diagnosed with mild

autism until the end of their THIRD GRADEI!

They were born in 1990. No autism spectrum was devised yet.

They are 19 now and headed to their freshman year in college...

So no glorified " Early Intervention " Which by the way is the ONLY way to

properly retrain a child diagnosed within the autism spectrum

Everyone was baffled because though not retarded and not completely

dysfunctional, my children exhibited EXACTLY the same behavior yours, except

multiply

all you go through X 2...

They developed normally until 1 and a half years, then they started

replacing vocabulary, meaning they did not retain the previous learned words,

but

replaced them with a new set.

We the parents, pre-school teachers, our extended family, school and private

psychologists were all at odds.

Yes, i cried when I read Dr. Goldberg's site, I cried when I went to see a

sleep disorder specialist, and cried every time I heard exactly what I wanted

to hear. But nothing new or different happened with my children.

They got older and their brain matured little by little.

They exhibited no fear to anything or truly spoke understandably, or looked

into our eyes until they became 9. Tantrums they never had...and will never

do. I am one of those annoyingly joking fathers. So the constant stimulatory

bombarding to get them from the AUTO mood helped them socially. While my wife

dedicated her entire time and energy to put them in all kinds of activities:

swimming, dancing, music, art, gymnastics and every other imaginable sport or

art form.

We became entirely absorbed in stimulating all of their senses, because we

noticed a difference in behavior and attention to their surroundings when they

became challenged...We maintained them both always busy and trying new

things...despite the fact that we have both always worked and have multiple

community involvement activities.

We are not an example, but our kids would have probably been committed to an

institution by now if we did not involved ourselves the way we did.

Yes, we all practice denial in many forms, and actively look for benign

answers in our desperation...My kid's diagnosis came late in their lives.

Should

they have been diagnosed on time like yours I assure you we would have

steadily followed all instructions to a T, and the slight stuttering and word

slurring they exhibit today would have been successfully treated.

Do not discard getting the indicated therapies now, if truly your child has

been misdiagnosed, the occupational, behavioral and speech therapy would not

harm him either. But if the diagnose is correct, then these therapies will

give you fantastic effects and retrain your child's brain to operate as a that

of a neuro-typical child

Hoping things get better soon

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I hope you are not referring to my post and assuming that my DH and I are not

doing everything we can to help son recover. If so, you can step down off your

presumptuous high horse and go back to devoting your energy to your twins and

stop insulting my family.

Kristy

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Re: Does everyone here still believe its Autism? I DO!

Ok:

Well, I am the sternest voice of opposition to parents who chose denial

instead of pro-active, hands-on intervention for their kids.

Yes you are in denial...flat simply...accept that you are in denial so you

can stop looking for what you wish to hear.

This condition is also about you. If your child was diagnosed with a mild

form of autism then he hast it...and your entire family too. Denying the

opportunity of providing cerebral and behavioral re-training to your child in

unjustifiable. ...

You are the communicating medium of your child, open all your senses so you

can absorb the great help you can get from professionals and the broad

supporting community. Yes, including brilliant Dr. Golberg.

What right do I have to talk to you like this?...Well for starters I am 50,

the father of a set of identical twin boys who were not diagnosed with mild

autism until the end of their THIRD GRADEI!

They were born in 1990. No autism spectrum was devised yet.

They are 19 now and headed to their freshman year in college...

So no glorified " Early Intervention " Which by the way is the ONLY way to

properly retrain a child diagnosed within the autism spectrum

Everyone was baffled because though not retarded and not completely

dysfunctional, my children exhibited EXACTLY the same behavior yours, except

multiply

all you go through X 2...

They developed normally until 1 and a half years, then they started

replacing vocabulary, meaning they did not retain the previous learned words,

but

replaced them with a new set.

We the parents, pre-school teachers, our extended family, school and private

psychologists were all at odds.

Yes, i cried when I read Dr. Goldberg's site, I cried when I went to see a

sleep disorder specialist, and cried every time I heard exactly what I wanted

to hear. But nothing new or different happened with my children.

They got older and their brain matured little by little.

They exhibited no fear to anything or truly spoke understandably, or looked

into our eyes until they became 9. Tantrums they never had...and will never

do. I am one of those annoyingly joking fathers. So the constant stimulatory

bombarding to get them from the AUTO mood helped them socially. While my wife

dedicated her entire time and energy to put them in all kinds of activities:

swimming, dancing, music, art, gymnastics and every other imaginable sport or

art form.

We became entirely absorbed in stimulating all of their senses, because we

noticed a difference in behavior and attention to their surroundings when they

became challenged...We maintained them both always busy and trying new

things...despite the fact that we have both always worked and have multiple

community involvement activities.

We are not an example, but our kids would have probably been committed to an

institution by now if we did not involved ourselves the way we did.

Yes, we all practice denial in many forms, and actively look for benign

answers in our desperation...My kid's diagnosis came late in their lives.

Should

they have been diagnosed on time like yours I assure you we would have

steadily followed all instructions to a T, and the slight stuttering and word

slurring they exhibit today would have been successfully treated.

Do not discard getting the indicated therapies now, if truly your child has

been misdiagnosed, the occupational, behavioral and speech therapy would not

harm him either. But if the diagnose is correct, then these therapies will

give you fantastic effects and retrain your child's brain to operate as a that

of a neuro-typical child

Hoping things get better soon

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Amen!

Re: Does everyone here still believe its Autism? I DO!

Ok:

Well, I am the sternest voice of opposition to parents who chose denial

instead of pro-active, hands-on intervention for their kids.

Yes you are in denial...flat simply...accept that you are in denial so you

can stop looking for what you wish to hear.

This condition is also about you. If your child was diagnosed with a mild

form of autism then he hast it...and your entire family too. Denying the

opportunity of providing cerebral and behavioral re-training to your child in

unjustifiable. ...

You are the communicating medium of your child, open all your senses so you

can absorb the great help you can get from professionals and the broad

supporting community. Yes, including brilliant Dr. Golberg.

What right do I have to talk to you like this?...Well for starters I am 50,

the father of a set of identical twin boys who were not diagnosed with mild

autism until the end of their THIRD GRADEI!

They were born in 1990. No autism spectrum was devised yet.

They are 19 now and headed to their freshman year in college...

So no glorified " Early Intervention " Which by the way is the ONLY way to

properly retrain a child diagnosed within the autism spectrum

Everyone was baffled because though not retarded and not completely

dysfunctional, my children exhibited EXACTLY the same behavior yours, except

multiply

all you go through X 2...

They developed normally until 1 and a half years, then they started

replacing vocabulary, meaning they did not retain the previous learned words,

but

replaced them with a new set.

We the parents, pre-school teachers, our extended family, school and private

psychologists were all at odds.

Yes, i cried when I read Dr. Goldberg's site, I cried when I went to see a

sleep disorder specialist, and cried every time I heard exactly what I wanted

to hear. But nothing new or different happened with my children.

They got older and their brain matured little by little.

They exhibited no fear to anything or truly spoke understandably, or looked

into our eyes until they became 9. Tantrums they never had...and will never

do. I am one of those annoyingly joking fathers. So the constant stimulatory

bombarding to get them from the AUTO mood helped them socially. While my wife

dedicated her entire time and energy to put them in all kinds of activities:

swimming, dancing, music, art, gymnastics and every other imaginable sport or

art form.

We became entirely absorbed in stimulating all of their senses, because we

noticed a difference in behavior and attention to their surroundings when they

became challenged...We maintained them both always busy and trying new

things...despite the fact that we have both always worked and have multiple

community involvement activities.

We are not an example, but our kids would have probably been committed to an

institution by now if we did not involved ourselves the way we did.

Yes, we all practice denial in many forms, and actively look for benign

answers in our desperation...My kid's diagnosis came late in their lives.

Should

they have been diagnosed on time like yours I assure you we would have

steadily followed all instructions to a T, and the slight stuttering and word

slurring they exhibit today would have been successfully treated.

Do not discard getting the indicated therapies now, if truly your child has

been misdiagnosed, the occupational, behavioral and speech therapy would not

harm him either. But if the diagnose is correct, then these therapies will

give you fantastic effects and retrain your child's brain to operate as a that

of a neuro-typical child

Hoping things get better soon

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[Guest guest]

Our kids are so different with different problems...hence " spectrum " is the name

of this disorder. Not all situations are created equal. But it would do some

good if you didn't judge parents because they have it hard enough.

>

> Ok:

>

> Well, I am the sternest voice of opposition to parents who chose denial

> instead of pro-active, hands-on intervention for their kids.

> Yes you are in denial...flat simply...accept that you are in denial so you

> can stop looking for what you wish to hear.

> This condition is also about you. If your child was diagnosed with a mild

> form of autism then he hast it...and your entire family too. Denying the

> opportunity of providing cerebral and behavioral re-training to your child in

> unjustifiable. ...

> You are the communicating medium of your child, open all your senses so you

> can absorb the great help you can get from professionals and the broad

> supporting community. Yes, including brilliant Dr. Golberg.

> What right do I have to talk to you like this?...Well for starters I am 50,

> the father of a set of identical twin boys who were not diagnosed with mild

> autism until the end of their THIRD GRADEI!

>

> They were born in 1990. No autism spectrum was devised yet.

> They are 19 now and headed to their freshman year in college...

> So no glorified " Early Intervention " Which by the way is the ONLY way to

> properly retrain a child diagnosed within the autism spectrum

> Everyone was baffled because though not retarded and not completely

> dysfunctional, my children exhibited EXACTLY the same behavior yours, except

multiply

> all you go through X 2...

> They developed normally until 1 and a half years, then they started

> replacing vocabulary, meaning they did not retain the previous learned words,

but

> replaced them with a new set.

> We the parents, pre-school teachers, our extended family, school and private

> psychologists were all at odds.

> Yes, i cried when I read Dr. Goldberg's site, I cried when I went to see a

> sleep disorder specialist, and cried every time I heard exactly what I wanted

> to hear. But nothing new or different happened with my children.

> They got older and their brain matured little by little.

> They exhibited no fear to anything or truly spoke understandably, or looked

> into our eyes until they became 9. Tantrums they never had...and will never

> do. I am one of those annoyingly joking fathers. So the constant stimulatory

> bombarding to get them from the AUTO mood helped them socially. While my wife

> dedicated her entire time and energy to put them in all kinds of activities:

> swimming, dancing, music, art, gymnastics and every other imaginable sport or

> art form.

> We became entirely absorbed in stimulating all of their senses, because we

> noticed a difference in behavior and attention to their surroundings when

they

> became challenged...We maintained them both always busy and trying new

> things...despite the fact that we have both always worked and have multiple

> community involvement activities.

> We are not an example, but our kids would have probably been committed to an

> institution by now if we did not involved ourselves the way we did.

>

> Yes, we all practice denial in many forms, and actively look for benign

> answers in our desperation...My kid's diagnosis came late in their lives.

Should

> they have been diagnosed on time like yours I assure you we would have

> steadily followed all instructions to a T, and the slight stuttering and word

> slurring they exhibit today would have been successfully treated.

> Do not discard getting the indicated therapies now, if truly your child has

> been misdiagnosed, the occupational, behavioral and speech therapy would not

> harm him either. But if the diagnose is correct, then these therapies will

> give you fantastic effects and retrain your child's brain to operate as a that

> of a neuro-typical child

>

> Hoping things get better soon

>

>

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> steps!

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Indeed we all do have it hard...

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