Guest guest Posted November 17, 2009 Report Share Posted November 17, 2009 , The school did little to support progress in math so I took it upon myself. They used a visual system to teach adding and two years later subtraction, about third grade. The system they had was basically finger counting single digits but they counted points and corners on the numbers them selves. 3 count the three points etc. He would use his fingers as well. (Bare with me there is a message here). I transferred the finger counting to grouping starting with 5s and then 10s. 5,10,15 etc. Each week or two I would add a number. 2s. 3s. It worked but it was slow and stopped after double digit Then at one point DR G increased the Zoloft and over night he got it, period. Times tables, triple digit division and multiplication, all on paper. Then after that he suggested we add Effexor, in two days he had mental math like a champ and still does. The Effexor was very bad for Connor, real negative and self destructive thoughts and behaviors we had to stop but the point being is at some point in the recovery a connection is made and the lights go on. I taught him fractions, integers and factors over the summer. Word problems still kill him and his math grade is the pits but if he sees the numbers he gets it, totally. It may just take more time to heal and allow the brain connections to happen. Keep pushing but I found I was making it so important he was fighting learning it, Then it all made sense and he loved it. Bill From: <thecolemans4@...> Subject: Off-topic: How to help kids improve multiplication speed? " " < > Date: Monday, November 16, 2009, 10:00 PM  Hi all, Sorry for the off-topic request, but you guys have all these great tips! We are struggling (long term) w/my son - 10yrs old - and his math. We have really neglected a couple of areas in Math because any time we tried to work on math in the past, he flew into tantrums that could last all night. Sigh. I've never seen someone put up a bigger fight. Excuses excuses. Anyway, that is over, and we are trying to get him up to speed. His multiplication speed is really poor, and it makes it harder for him to grasp other areas. By the time he has an answer, he has lost his place. Just teaching him to have his pencil ready to write while he is reading a problem helped some - that simple thing was a big deal that it took me a lot of time to catch on to. In the past we've worked from the multiplication tables, helped him practice them, had him call them out, etc, but any improvement in speed only seems to last the evening, and by the next day all the work seems lost. Do you have some suggestions of some sites that could help address that problem? I wonder if there are games that would help strenghten these core abilities? Thank you for your help, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2009 Report Share Posted November 17, 2009 , My 11 year old also had issues with multiplication tables two years ago. We had tried everything, from touch math with his special tutor to memorizing " multiplication rhyme-story " and nothing seemed to work. Finally my husband decided to try the old fashioned approach ( when we we're kids the teacher had big posters around the room, and we had to say them slowly, every morning when we came in the classroom, right after the flag salute). We taped big multiplication tables around the walls of his bedroom. We added one at a time as he memorized them. Every night before going to sleep he had to say them at least twice (slowly). We promised him a big surprise if he managed to memorize and retain them. It took a couple of months, but he did it! He still remembers them today and we still have the posters up on his wall:) I hope this helps! Argie On Nov 16, 2009, at 7:00 PM, wrote: > Hi all, > Sorry for the off-topic request, but you guys have all these great > tips! > We are struggling (long term) w/my son - 10yrs old - and his math. > We have really neglected a couple of areas in Math because any time > we tried to work on math in the past, he flew into tantrums that > could last all night. Sigh. I've never seen someone put up a > bigger fight. Excuses excuses. Anyway, that is over, and we are > trying to get him up to speed. > > His multiplication speed is really poor, and it makes it harder for > him to grasp other areas. By the time he has an answer, he has lost > his place. Just teaching him to have his pencil ready to write > while he is reading a problem helped some - that simple thing was a > big deal that it took me a lot of time to catch on to. > > In the past we've worked from the multiplication tables, helped him > practice them, had him call them out, etc, but any improvement in > speed only seems to last the evening, and by the next day all the > work seems lost. > Do you have some suggestions of some sites that could help address > that problem? I wonder if there are games that would help > strenghten these core abilities? > > Thank you for your help, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2009 Report Share Posted November 17, 2009 That really does help - thank you! At the very least, I don't see any harm having a multiplication table up and available for him while working on the multiple digit problems while he is learning the structure. He keeps losing his place because it takes him too long to come up with the number. I wish I had thought of that earlier instead of being so militant! ________________________________ From: Argie Olivo <golivo@...> Sent: Tue, November 17, 2009 4:20:30 PM Subject: Re: Off-topic: How to help kids improve multiplication speed? , My 11 year old also had issues with multiplication tables two years ago. We had tried everything, from touch math with his special tutor to memorizing " multiplication rhyme-story " and nothing seemed to work. Finally my husband decided to try the old fashioned approach ( when we we're kids the teacher had big posters around the room, and we had to say them slowly, every morning when we came in the classroom, right after the flag salute). We taped big multiplication tables around the walls of his bedroom. We added one at a time as he memorized them. Every night before going to sleep he had to say them at least twice (slowly). We promised him a big surprise if he managed to memorize and retain them. It took a couple of months, but he did it! He still remembers them today and we still have the posters up on his wall:) I hope this helps! Argie On Nov 16, 2009, at 7:00 PM, wrote: > Hi all, > Sorry for the off-topic request, but you guys have all these great > tips! > We are struggling (long term) w/my son - 10yrs old - and his math. > We have really neglected a couple of areas in Math because any time > we tried to work on math in the past, he flew into tantrums that > could last all night. Sigh. I've never seen someone put up a > bigger fight. Excuses excuses. Anyway, that is over, and we are > trying to get him up to speed. > > His multiplication speed is really poor, and it makes it harder for > him to grasp other areas. By the time he has an answer, he has lost > his place. Just teaching him to have his pencil ready to write > while he is reading a problem helped some - that simple thing was a > big deal that it took me a lot of time to catch on to. > > In the past we've worked from the multiplication tables, helped him > practice them, had him call them out, etc, but any improvement in > speed only seems to last the evening, and by the next day all the > work seems lost. > Do you have some suggestions of some sites that could help address > that problem? I wonder if there are games that would help > strenghten these core abilities? > > Thank you for your help, > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 2009 Report Share Posted November 17, 2009 Thank you, Bill. I REALLY needed to hear that! When I'm feeling guilty and ashamed that I haven't pushed harder, I know that a part of me has been 'understanding' that his brain would lock up when he tried to do this. I went thru a period in the last couple of years where I couln't split a simple fraction or balance a check book even with a calculator because my brain fog was so bad (for a few weeks I could not even count scoops to make a pot of coffee!!!), and I know that I've been more lenient when he was like this. Now as he seems to be hitting a good point, I'm ready to work with him. You are always reminding us not to internalize too much. I wish I worked harder but I need to stop having the regrets and pick up things where I am, knowing that I've worked in other areas because that's where he needed the most help at the time. It also encourages me to go ahead and start pushing and testing those other SSRIs now, instead of sticking where it is safe. He only takes 1/2 of the lowest dose of Zoloft because any more and he complains that he doesn't feel like him, and things get rough for him. Time to try some more, because he seems to have really hit a great place. What better time to mess it up than now? lol. (Just kidding all of you who are worrying about the ssri's!) (First, I'm going to try to figure out what you mean on counting corners when I'm not sleepy - I love tools like that. I visualize the numbers somewhat like dominoes to add but don't know quite how to teach that.) Thank you Bill for that encouragement. Garrett is a bright guy, and his IQ above average, so I really feel like when the block loosens it's grip, he'll be able to do like Connor. Still, listening to you over the last few years, I think you're a particulary great Dad. TTYL, ________________________________ From: Bill klimas <klimas_bill@...> Sent: Tue, November 17, 2009 9:31:35 AM Subject: Re: Off-topic: How to help kids improve multiplication speed?  , The school did little to support progress in math so I took it upon myself. They used a visual system to teach adding and two years later subtraction, about third grade. The system they had was basically finger counting single digits but they counted points and corners on the numbers them selves. 3 count the three points etc. He would use his fingers as well. (Bare with me there is a message here). I transferred the finger counting to grouping starting with 5s and then 10s. 5,10,15 etc. Each week or two I would add a number. 2s. 3s. It worked but it was slow and stopped after double digit Then at one point DR G increased the Zoloft and over night he got it, period. Times tables, triple digit division and multiplication, all on paper. Then after that he suggested we add Effexor, in two days he had mental math like a champ and still does. The Effexor was very bad for Connor, real negative and self destructive thoughts and behaviors we had to stop but the point being is at some point in the recovery a connection is made and the lights go on. I taught him fractions, integers and factors over the summer. Word problems still kill him and his math grade is the pits but if he sees the numbers he gets it, totally. It may just take more time to heal and allow the brain connections to happen. Keep pushing but I found I was making it so important he was fighting learning it, Then it all made sense and he loved it. Bill From: <thecolemans4> Subject: Off-topic: How to help kids improve multiplication speed? " " <groups (DOT) com> Date: Monday, November 16, 2009, 10:00 PM  Hi all, Sorry for the off-topic request, but you guys have all these great tips! We are struggling (long term) w/my son - 10yrs old - and his math. We have really neglected a couple of areas in Math because any time we tried to work on math in the past, he flew into tantrums that could last all night. Sigh. I've never seen someone put up a bigger fight. Excuses excuses. Anyway, that is over, and we are trying to get him up to speed. His multiplication speed is really poor, and it makes it harder for him to grasp other areas. By the time he has an answer, he has lost his place. Just teaching him to have his pencil ready to write while he is reading a problem helped some - that simple thing was a big deal that it took me a lot of time to catch on to. In the past we've worked from the multiplication tables, helped him practice them, had him call them out, etc, but any improvement in speed only seems to last the evening, and by the next day all the work seems lost. Do you have some suggestions of some sites that could help address that problem? I wonder if there are games that would help strenghten these core abilities? Thank you for your help, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 18, 2009 Report Share Posted November 18, 2009 , My son has struggled with this also. The thing I believe has helped the most is Fact Triangles. The Math program at school uses these, and we have all the triangles at home and use these instead of flash cards. If you are not familiar with them, it is a triangle and the 3 numbers are on each point, and when quizzing you cover one of the numbers. My son is a visual learner so after awhile he automatically started to associate 8, 3 and 24. It works in " all directions " because it naturally turns into him understanding division too. You may be able to find copies on the internet and print off, or could easily make your own too. > > Hi all, > Sorry for the off-topic request, but you guys have all these great tips! > We are struggling (long term) w/my son - 10yrs old - and his math. We have really neglected a couple of areas in Math because any time we tried to work on math in the past, he flew into tantrums that could last all night. Sigh. I've never seen someone put up a bigger fight. Excuses excuses. Anyway, that is over, and we are trying to get him up to speed. > > His multiplication speed is really poor, and it makes it harder for him to grasp other areas. By the time he has an answer, he has lost his place. Just teaching him to have his pencil ready to write while he is reading a problem helped some - that simple thing was a big deal that it took me a lot of time to catch on to. > > In the past we've worked from the multiplication tables, helped him practice them, had him call them out, etc, but any improvement in speed only seems to last the evening, and by the next day all the work seems lost. > Do you have some suggestions of some sites that could help address that problem? I wonder if there are games that would help strenghten these core abilities? > > Thank you for your help, > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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