too sensitive?

April 28, 2008

I have written several times about how inconsiderate my husband can do lots

of shaming and blaming with me, just like nada does. I am not sure he is a

BP....but something is wrong, Sex is usually very limited for me with him. I

need emotional intimacy outside the bedroom, before it can happen in the

bedroom. This Friday morning, my husband suggested a date night on Saturday. He

said, " Dinner, movie and sex. " So Saturday came....and I called him when we

wasn't home by 5, and he said he really wanted to work on his car, and so he got

home at 10:00pm. I truly was ok with that, and I really didn't think we would

have a Saturday night- date night. I also wasn't insisting he came home for this

date. So Sunday comes and I am sitting at my computer typing a response to a

post and he comes up, and puts his hand into my face and there is white liquid

lotion in his hand. He looks at me and says.. " See what you missed " Inferring he

had mast---ed and this had come from him. It was just hand lotion neatly formed

on the palm of his hand. I was shocked and then thought..yuck, why would you do

this? He thought he was so funny...and just laughed. Then of course my

tapes played from him and nada. To him I am too sensitive and to nada I was just

thin skinned. I am just looking for some validation that this was not

appropriate and I am not too sensitive. Thanks, Malinda

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