Guest guest Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Broomie -- Good for you! You're seeing the light! And yes -- all of the things on your list will hit home to the readers here on this forum. I could identify with many of them. The key to a BPDs damage is one thing: VICTIMS. If you refuse to stick around and be a victim, she can't play her game. I wouldn't listen to her, wouldn't argue with her, wouldn't give her opinion a feather's worth of consideration. If she wants to talk badly about you to your sisters, there's nothing you can do about it. If she wants to think the worst of everyone, let her do it in someone else's presence. You're FREE to walk away from the game, and severely minimize or delete her presence in your life. Again, all of her interpersonal antics are completely dependent on victims in the line of fire. Walk away. -Kyla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 2, 2008 Report Share Posted January 2, 2008 Same here -- and I just now realized that the current Silent Treatment that my nada's dishing out is a demand for attention. And when you GIVE her attention, either through a visit or a phone call, she then switches to demanding pity. (also a demand for attention!) -Kyla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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