new to group, book(s) question

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hi,

i'm the co-parent of a 21yo boy whose Mom shows a lot of BPD traits.

so i'm here as a proxy for my son. i hope to be able to get him to

come here himself. its a long shot but if he does sign on then i'll

move on out of respect for his privacy.

in the meantime i'm looking for a book for my son to read to help him

understand and better process what is going on between him and his

Mom. i didn't find Roth's Surviving a Borderline Parent or Lawson's

Understanding the Borderline Mother to be very helpful. both are

somewhat illuminating, but they both fall short of the pithy and

immediately helpful content of Krieger's Stop Walking on Eggshells. my

son has limited patience for this sort of reading, i want to get him

something excellent. i may end up suggesting Eggshells to him even tho

its not directed at adult children of BPD parents.

any comments or suggestions?

_________Ron