Guest guest Posted January 9, 2008 Report Share Posted January 9, 2008 Finally got married. Everything was great. Later I heard that Nada tried to move all her people from my " husbands " side of the aisle. My people outnumbered his 6 to 1. My husband asked her to sit down and stop and she turned it into " he was disrespectful and yelled at me " when I've never heard him yell at anyone or be disrespectful in 4 years of knowing him. People there confirm my Nada was losing her mind and husband didn't act in a bad way...just gave Nada a firm boundary. Now fada hates my husband and thinks he's Hitler. The problem is that I can't find peace as long as I have contact with them. I don't want to lose contact with them. Why can't I take charge of my mind and emotions? Nada is mentally ill and fada is the passive enabler as always. I love them both and fada has a fatal disease. I can't walk away from her or him. It's not always bad...it's either perfect or bad. Can I learn to detach with love and still engage? I've made some progress, but I want more progress. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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