Guest guest Posted January 13, 2008 Report Share Posted January 13, 2008 Oh where to start. I havent posted for some time as I been distracitng my self with little projects and work, etc. Nada is long gone, left Dad about 15 years ago. However bad memories remain that i cant get away from. I was diagnosed with complex PTSD - (caused by nadas abuse)and some months ago did try to broach the subject with Dad about the child abuse and how relatives had trivialized and denied the incidents. Only to be met with more rejection and the " your mother " blah blah, and criticized for complaining yet again for how much I suffered. So I swallowed my feelings again like so many times before because they never mattered anyhow. Just gratefull that a least i confonted him. Got on with my life and maintained kind of a relationship with Dad everything smooth. Then a couple weeks ago there was an incident at work with this woman who is BPD type. It brought back alot of bad feelings about my own nada. Well had enough. Complex PTSD is a whole other subject for another thread. But I took it upon myself to confront original source of distress directly. So I sent my dad an email about the horrific things nada did to me and how he did nothing to get me away from it. I also put in some shots at how relatives would not take the abuse seriously. Specfically a time when nada broke my wrist, I went to his Aunt in tears about this. Then I caught this same Aunt laughing with my Dad about it over a year later. That hurt bad and i let him know it. It's been over a week now and he has not responded. I love my dad and we had a wonderfull relationship but he would just not see what was going on before his very eyes. It hurts. Thanks for listening, Tina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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