Types of BP Emails

[Guest guest]

Hello all,

I know we all have a lot of issues with our BPs and emails so I thought

I would throw out this question and see what you all think. I receive

two types of emails: (1) angry, seething, vicious, " how dare you " and

(2) I have been such a great mother and you are such an ungrateful

daughter but I am saying this with love....does this ring true for

everyone? Today I received an email from NADA titled " good luck " and I

just about passed out when I opened it and the email was about 4 pages

long. She did not wish me good luck, it was rather an opportunity for

her to make feel like " poop " for not treating her well or appreciating

her " fabulous " parenting skills. I am not sure how to respond, what to

say, etc. I will say that the email made me cry, nothing new there. I

don't get it how she thinks she was such as good mother!

[Guest guest]

Yes, those are the 2 types of emails I get from my NADA. Both of

which are self absorbed and all about them.

~Sara jo

>

> Hello all,

>

> I know we all have a lot of issues with our BPs and emails so I

thought

> I would throw out this question and see what you all think. I

receive

> two types of emails: (1) angry, seething, vicious, " how dare you "

and

> (2) I have been such a great mother and you are such an ungrateful

> daughter but I am saying this with love....does this ring true for

> everyone? Today I received an email from NADA titled " good luck "

and I

> just about passed out when I opened it and the email was about 4

pages

> long. She did not wish me good luck, it was rather an opportunity

for

> her to make feel like " poop " for not treating her well or

appreciating

> her " fabulous " parenting skills. I am not sure how to respond,

what to

> say, etc. I will say that the email made me cry, nothing new

there. I

> don't get it how she thinks she was such as good mother!

>

[Guest guest]

Man, I have got the same ones. Pages & pages long, most of the it just

repeating the same thing. My nada's were filled with an insane amount

of passive aggressive crap...... " After everything I've done for you,

you still shit all over me " to " I just can't take your abuse anymore "

to " You've turned out to be such a beautiful person, obviously I did

something right " ....

ugh. Just delete it!

Love,

-- In WTOAdultChildren1 , " Sara Jo "

wrote:

>

> Yes, those are the 2 types of emails I get from my NADA. Both of

> which are self absorbed and all about them.

> ~Sara jo

>

> >

> > Hello all,

> >

> > I know we all have a lot of issues with our BPs and emails so I

> thought

> > I would throw out this question and see what you all think. I

> receive

> > two types of emails: (1) angry, seething, vicious, " how dare you "

> and

> > (2) I have been such a great mother and you are such an ungrateful

> > daughter but I am saying this with love....does this ring true for

> > everyone? Today I received an email from NADA titled " good luck "

> and I

> > just about passed out when I opened it and the email was about 4

> pages

> > long. She did not wish me good luck, it was rather an opportunity

> for

> > her to make feel like " poop " for not treating her well or

> appreciating

> > her " fabulous " parenting skills. I am not sure how to respond,

> what to

> > say, etc. I will say that the email made me cry, nothing new

> there. I

> > don't get it how she thinks she was such as good mother!

> >

>