Re: another meeting w/parents' therapist

[Guest guest]

Jill,

I could have written the same thing - " I just don't know how to be

around her " .

Sylvia

>

> Gosh this feels like it's never gonna end. Once the can of worms

is

> open there's no way to shut it. 2 days after x-mas my dad calls

w/a

> plea to come chat w/their therapist again. I agree to. In the

meeting

> my nada admits to being jealous of me, of my life, everything.

She'll

> make rude comments to me because of this jealousy. Suspecting it

was

> one thing, knowing she feels this way is quite another. She

wouldn't

> admit to changing stories from one person to another/lying. I

didn't

> expect her to. I just don't know how to be around her. I couldn't

be

> friends w/someone like her. After these meetings and arguing we

seem to

> go on like it never happened until she does something else. I

don't

> know how to cope w/this. I finally told my parents via ecard that

I was

> expecting a baby. After their crummy responses the previous times

> that's why I sent the announcement on the web. This time they gave

me a

> really fake wow we are soooooo excited. Whatever. I hate being

around

> her, I can't talk to my dad about it much because he doesn't want

to be

> in the middle. I really hate this. Sorry I had to just vent.....

> Jill

>

[Guest guest]

Me, too! I feel like a long-tailed cat in a room full of rocking

chairs! I don't know which subjects are safe, how long to stay, if

she's mad at me and waiting to unleash her tears or her rage. I'm a

nervous wreck around her -- But I keep myself bland and vague and as

detached as possible. But I truly " don't know how to be around her "

either!

-Kyla