Guest guest Posted August 3, 2002 Report Share Posted August 3, 2002 Please let us know how your visit with the doctors went yesterday -- I've been thinking about you! Me too. Love Barbara (UK) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 17, 2008 Report Share Posted March 17, 2008 How are you doing Alison? You sound so much happier than before. " Sweet Goat Mama " Carolyn Eddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 17, 2008 Report Share Posted March 17, 2008 Hi Carolyn :-) I am doing really well all things considered. I thought it would take me forever to get over my Fiance, however due to what he did & the way he has continued to act (very nasty) it is surprising how quickly you can start to dislike someone. I still love him but I don't like him at all anymore. I see a person I never knew & am actually glad to be away from him, if this is what he is really like. I am learning to cope with everything & whilst the house is a little too big for me to deal with, a friends daughter comes over once a week to help me to do a big clean up, so that all I have to do is light housework during the week which helps heaps. I am fighting to get onto a disability pension as they tightened the rules for that, due to many people being on it who shouldn't have been. So now you have to go to goodness knows how many different appointments to get it. However I should have an answer soon. My daughter has insisted I go live with her so I will be moving interstate soon & I think will be a lot happier, as there are no memories of him where she is based. Also my daughter & I are very close so we will both enjoy living with each other again. The weirdest thing is how I feel in myself. I feel like a fog has lifted. I always felt very doped up & out of it. However my other half always did my medication, insisting that he was helping me. Now I am doing it, I dunno but its different. Many have said its like the lights were on but no one was at home when he did it. Now I am thinking quicker & not having problems concentrating. The thought is he was overdosing me with some of my meds to keep me quiet, as I have always been strong willed. I cant prove it, but I do feel one heck of a lot better. He was very controlling of me though & many saw it, I guess I stopped fighting him as it was easier to let him take over. So now I am enjoying the simple things that he never let me do. I guess I am living proof that you can be in one heap of pain & then lose a partner & show that no matter how low you feel at the time, there is light at the end of the tunnel. I have a way to go yet to fully be over him as that will take time, however I am doing really well & am actually enjoying doing the housework even if it takes me all day to get it done lol. Thank you for asking :-) Alison Carolyn Eddy wrote: > How are you doing Alison? You sound so much happier than before. > > " Sweet Goat Mama " > Carolyn Eddy > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 17, 2008 Report Share Posted March 17, 2008 I'm so glad it's working out for you. Your daughter is a real keeper. " Sweet Goat Mama " Carolyn Eddy www.goattracksmagazine.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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