NC = No Contact Right? - Okay I did it !! It was a long time coming....

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Okay everyone, I have not been online lately, lots going on around

here. But I finally told my 60 year old mother to fuck off. I am over

her shit and she is now out of my life and the life of my kids

forever!! I will not allow her to hurt me anymore, I am over being

hurt by her over and over again.

Today, she almost had me arrested, or she tried to at least.

Long story short, she said I stole stuff out of her home. I did take

some suitcases and some wood that belonged to me, but I took the

suitcases because I thought she had left them behind. She is a little

senial in her old age and I assumed that she had forgotten to take

her suitcases when she moved out of her home. She sold her house, and

I live across the street from her " now empty " home. The new people

are moving in this coming weekend, the new owner's that is.

Anyway, I was driving to the store with my kids, when I noticed that

the wood that I had lent my mom to move her washer and dryer was

being thrown in the trash by some strange painters. This wood was

hand made and carved by my husband to make a new bed for our 2 year

old son. It worked great though with moving a washer and dryer into a

truck though, I used them as ramps to help my mom. Anyway, these

strange painters (who were hired by the new home owners) were

throwing this very expensive wood away, that was my husbands. So I

stopped and told them who I was, and that the wood was mine and it

was supposed to be returned to me by my mother when she moved out of

her house last weekend, but she never returned it to me when she

moved out. My mother doesn't give a shit about other people's things,

so she just left my son's bed parts in her garage to be thrown in the

trash (this is very nice and expensive wood by the way).

So the painters loaded the wood up for me into my mini-van and then

they said to me " Your mom also left a few suitcases behind in her

garage, we were told to get rid of anything left behind, so we were

going to throw them out, why don't you take them and give them to

your mother? " . I was hesitant, but I allowed them to load these

suitcases into my van, they have been sitting in my van for 2 days

now, with the intention of me giving them to my mom next time that I

saw her.

WEll, as it turns out, the suitcases belonged to the new home owners,

they had left them there, and the painters didn't know about it.

So when the owners went to their new home today, their belongings

were gone, and they were upset. So they called my mom's agent and

then my mom, and my mother told the agent and the new owner's that

that I must have stolen the items. So I get a horrible message on my

cell phone from my mother saying that I am going to be arrested for

breaking in and entering (I never even went into the home - I was in

the driveway) and also that I would be in jail (knowing that I have a

2 year old here and a 5 year old with me at home, and my husband is

gone in the military and never home. Then my mom's real estate agent

called, and reamed me a new a-hole, and wouldn't even let me explain

or get a word in edge wise, basically yelled at me, called me a thief

and said I would be going to jail and to explain it to a judge. I was

so upset, I was crying, and so emotionally wrecked, I called my mom

and she hung up on me, no one would allow me to explain what really

happened. I was doing my mother a favor, so that the painters

wouldn't throw her things in the trash, at least that was my

intention.

So I drove across the street, crying my eyes out, and thankfully the

new owners were there and the painters (who gave me the suitcases in

the first place) were all there, and the owner immediately apologized

to me and said it was a huge misunderstanding and that the painters

told her that they made me take the stuff saying it was probably my

mother's stuff and they were told to throw any belongings in the

trash. So I didn't get into trouble, I gladly returned the suitcases,

which I never even opened at all, and it was over with. But I was

still crying because I couldn't believe that my mother would tell

people that I probably broke into her house and stole their personal

belongings. Why would she do that? And my own mother told them to

have me arrested!! KNowing I have young children, what if the police

didn't believe me and they arrested me in front of my 2 young

children? What would have happened to my kids? I was devasted that my

mom didn't consider the consequences of her evil actions, especially

since my mom knows that I am NOT a THIEF, and I have never been a

thief in my entire life!! She knows me very well, and knows how much

I hate thieves!!

I think my mother has finally lost her mind. All 3 of my sisters were

also devasted and tried to calm me down today. They are all cutting

our mother off too, they are sick and tired of her hurting me all of

the time over and over again, after everything I have done for her

since my dad left her (3 years ago) - I have always been there for

her, when no one else would bail her out...........I even bailed her

out of jail 2 years ago when she got that DUI........

And this is the fucking thanks I get....!!

She will never see me or my kids again, I am done with her crazy shit

and I told her that today......

And guess what her response was to me?

" Mia, you need help, you are sick and bipolar and may god be with you

and help you " ? What? What in the hell is she talking about??

Argh, I am so angry and hurt.

I have to run now, I have a doctor appt for my stress and my severe

heartburn, probably caused by my mother.

I will write more later when I am done at the doctors.

Thanks for letting me vent......

It feels good to consider my mother dead now, and finally move on

with my life, since she is my only source of pain in my life...

Love you all,

Mia