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Ok, father's day is rapidly approaching and I am getting that uncomfortable

feeling again. Having been n/c for over a year (and moving 600 miles away)

mainly due to my mother's absolute craziness, I have this urge/need to make nice

with dad. Basically, he chose to support nada (I was the sacraficial lamb) and

her toxic behavior. I can't seem to get over the fact that I miss him terribly

and my children will never know their grandfather.

I have written letters several times, but have NOT mailed them. What do you

say.... " I love you and miss you but don't call me !! " I want some part of him

in my life....or do I?

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wow, ya that hurts. I haven't recognized father's day since going NC even

back when I was in touch with dad. For me, the mother and fathers day things

were just too hard, too emotional so I just ignored it. Most men forget

birthdays, anniversaries etc often enough that I figure it is a small thing

to overlook.

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> Ok, father's day is rapidly approaching and I am getting that uncomfortable

> feeling again. Having been n/c for over a year (and moving 600 miles away)

> mainly due to my mother's absolute craziness, I have this urge/need to make

> nice with dad. Basically, he chose to support nada (I was the sacraficial

> lamb) and her toxic behavior. I can't seem to get over the fact that I miss

> him terribly and my children will never know their grandfather.

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> I have written letters several times, but have NOT mailed them. What do

> you say.... " I love you and miss you but don't call me !! " I want some part

> of him in my life....or do I?

>

>

>

http://www.windowslive.com/family_safety/overview.html?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_Refresh\

_family_safety_052008

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