Guest guest Posted May 30, 2008 Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 Ok, father's day is rapidly approaching and I am getting that uncomfortable feeling again. Having been n/c for over a year (and moving 600 miles away) mainly due to my mother's absolute craziness, I have this urge/need to make nice with dad. Basically, he chose to support nada (I was the sacraficial lamb) and her toxic behavior. I can't seem to get over the fact that I miss him terribly and my children will never know their grandfather. I have written letters several times, but have NOT mailed them. What do you say.... " I love you and miss you but don't call me !! " I want some part of him in my life....or do I? http://www.windowslive.com/family_safety/overview.html?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_Refresh\ _family_safety_052008 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2008 Report Share Posted May 30, 2008 wow, ya that hurts. I haven't recognized father's day since going NC even back when I was in touch with dad. For me, the mother and fathers day things were just too hard, too emotional so I just ignored it. Most men forget birthdays, anniversaries etc often enough that I figure it is a small thing to overlook. > > > Ok, father's day is rapidly approaching and I am getting that uncomfortable > feeling again. Having been n/c for over a year (and moving 600 miles away) > mainly due to my mother's absolute craziness, I have this urge/need to make > nice with dad. Basically, he chose to support nada (I was the sacraficial > lamb) and her toxic behavior. I can't seem to get over the fact that I miss > him terribly and my children will never know their grandfather. > > I have written letters several times, but have NOT mailed them. What do > you say.... " I love you and miss you but don't call me !! " I want some part > of him in my life....or do I? > > > http://www.windowslive.com/family_safety/overview.html?ocid=TXT_TAGLM_WL_Refresh\ _family_safety_052008 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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