Guest guest Posted August 18, 2011 Report Share Posted August 18, 2011 Hopefully this song will help you diffuse from you addiction to love Best wishes. > > Thank you everyone responding to my last thread, it allowed me to look at my > problem differently. > > Now the next one. I seem to jump from one love addiction to another; all > very unhealthy. This time, it's not the worst, just weird: it's someone I > came across on a dating site and never even met in person yet. He is out of > state and will be driving in next week, hopefully. > > I try to go on Starbucks " dates " often enough to know that almost no one > looks in real life as good as they do on the picture, and the few who do > probably won't like me (because same is true for me). So I try not to get > emotionally involved, see it as a game, take it easy, and it usually works. > All of the sudden, I am totally obsessed over someone. I think about him > 24/7, drive myself to exhaustion and am not functional at all, just waste > day after day. And I know from experience that 1) 9 chances out of 10 that I > won't even like him, and 2) 10 chances out of 10 that if I obsess over him, > I lose him even if I do.. we've got to be on the same page, and I am a lousy > actress. > > So what's the ACT way? Allow myself to think about him, but pursue my > values? How is it even possible? Those two things seem incompatible. If I > think about him, I am incapacitated. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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