How Are Your Partners Coping

[Guest guest]

    Now that Valentine's Day has passed, I am curious about how your spouses,

lovers, partners cope with your problems.

    I have been married for 42 years.  The negative outcome from my TC surgeries

in January 2010 has definitely put a strain on our relationship.  My husband

roomed in with me in the hospital and has been absolutely wonderful, by my side

24/7.  But " for better or worse " gets old.  He is doing all the cooking,

shopping, laundry, and driving.  I hate needing all that help and must admit to

taking my frustration out on him.  I wouldn't want to be married to me right

now.