Guest guest Posted November 26, 2011 Report Share Posted November 26, 2011 Hi,I am in a new relationship with someone who was pursuing me for quite a while (he said, longer than anyone before), who used to be a friend at first and eventually I warmed up to him. We are still honeymooning, it's been less than a month, and now we are having a complete role reversal where he is enjoying himself skiing 4 days a week, biking, hanging out with friends, and I have to be fit into his busy, but recreational, lifestyle whenever his time allows. And by now I have all my shields down and grew attached. I am hurt out of my mind. The feelings are of betrayal, rejection, being close to being " fired " and what not. Even though I know that if I play it cool, we could keep the good energy going pretty much forever.. but I can't keep cool. I can't be that low on his priority list. I know from experience that breaking up won't solve the problem, because I am living in my head a lot and will be thinking of him even if I don't see him. What do I do, in terms of exercise, acceptance, etc? (Going out on dates seems the best exercise of them all, and I am doing that, but with a VERY sad face - not conducive!) I need a happy face, now. Help! (And, though this may be a total off topic, am I right wanting more attention, or am I just being a banal needy chick?) Thank you,Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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