What does NADA stand for?

[Guest guest]

I keep reading the word " nada " in posts and I haven't got a clue what

it stands for! Can someone please explain it to me?

By the way, I'm brand new in here... just a few days ago was directed

to the bpdcentral website by my boss. Her mother suffers from bpd

(actually, those around her suffer from HER bpd, she doesn't suffer

from it) and she recognized many of the things I was describing about

my own mother. She brought up the " indicators " page and as I read it,

I don't know how I felt... amazed that someone out there was talking

about my mom... scared because there are more people like her out

there in the world (I probably know others!)... relieved that there is

finally an answer to what's been going on my entire life... and lastly

I felt anticipation... because I really want to find out all I can and

help myself and my daughter and my nieces (who are exposed to the

raging and the manipulation and all of that on a frequent basis).

I'm glad I was sent to bpdcentral and I'm glad to know that I can talk

about it in here. I look forward to hearing more of the insight that

I've been reading for the last hour or so...

[Guest guest]

Hello. I'm glad that you found this site too!

If you click the " Files " Link on the left hand side of the main group

page, you'll see a list of the you'll see throughout the messages

Nada: Used by some of the NonBP adult offspring of BPDs on the 'Oasis'

lists to refer to their BP mother who was not-a-mother in the true

sense of the word.

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In answer to your question

>

> I keep reading the word " nada " in posts and I haven't got a clue

what

> it stands for! Can someone please explain it to me?

>

> By the way, I'm brand new in here... just a few days ago was

directed

> to the bpdcentral website by my boss. Her mother suffers from bpd

> (actually, those around her suffer from HER bpd, she doesn't suffer

> from it) and she recognized many of the things I was describing

about

> my own mother. She brought up the " indicators " page and as I read

it,

> I don't know how I felt... amazed that someone out there was

talking

> about my mom... scared because there are more people like her out

> there in the world (I probably know others!)... relieved that there

is

> finally an answer to what's been going on my entire life... and

lastly

> I felt anticipation... because I really want to find out all I can

and

> help myself and my daughter and my nieces (who are exposed to the

> raging and the manipulation and all of that on a frequent basis).

>

> I'm glad I was sent to bpdcentral and I'm glad to know that I can

talk

> about it in here. I look forward to hearing more of the insight

that

> I've been reading for the last hour or so...

>