WARNING SEXUAL CONTENT Re: Re: Nadas and sex

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When I was little, I remember these books in print that taught

women to basically give away their personal power to be attractive

to men. I can see now the fallacy in that. Our mothers were taught

that to attract men they should never sound smart, because you

don't want to make him feel that your smarter than he is or

intimidate him. Bragging him up constantly about how strong and

wonderful he is(provide narcisistic fill). You want him to feel

superior in your presence...blah, blah, blah. And it was all about

how to act dumb and helpless to attract men. And build their egos

constantly. I think the book should have been called " How to

attract a man into your life, who has narcissim or borderline

personality disorder. "

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> My mother had to play stupid in front of men because

> she believed that they would be intimidated if they

> thought she was smart. Great lesson to teach your

> daughter.

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> She also has the 'always look good' in front of men

> thing, like dressing up to take out the garbage.

> Except that she really actually did dress up to talk

> out the garbage. She lived in an apartment for years

> and always reminded me to look my best in the elevator

> because you never knew who you might meet.

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