WARNING SEXUAL CONTENT Re: Re: Nadas and sexual development

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GirlScout,

It's taken YEARS for me to remember all those details and put it all

behind me. I had completely wiped it out; didn't remember a thing.

It was actually my sister and I talking about things and she made a

passing comment about this guy/jerk that set the whole process in

motion. Yes, I do know now that it's not my fault. Thank you for

your kind words. Talking about it does help still and I hope to God

that my story can help someone else. There is so much suffering in

all our pasts that we just have to stick together. Plain and

simple. We're all in this together and I just don't want to see any

of us beaten down any more.

Y'know,...I've always wanted a brother. Maybe he would have kicked

my 'gross boy' out! : )

Mercy

P.S. LOL,...I've found that WTF applies to SOOOO many situations in

my past. Haven't you? : )

>

> OMG, that is horrible. I am so sorry. I hope it helps to talk about

it and

> to know it's not your fault.

>

> Something similar very nearly happened to me. When I was about 15,

this

> gross boy who had been kicked out of his house was hanging out with

some of

> my friends. My b*tch of a mother somehow met him and talked to him

for about

> 3 minutes. Then she told him he could come stay with us. The kid

made me

> really nervous, he seemed very attracted to me and the feeling

wasn't

> mutual. He wouldn't take " no " for an answer. So, I took nada aside

and said

> that he made me feel very uncomfortable in a sexual way. The b*tch

said,

> " oh, that's okay, he can still stay with us, you can just sleep in

my bed

> with me. " WTF

>

> I think my brother, who was also their figured out what was going

on and

> told the kid to get lost. Thank God. It never came up again. It was

funny

> too because this was the same day she told me " I " m worried you

might be a

> slut " after seeing me hug one of the boys that I grew up with who

was just a

> friend. I mean, I took baths with the kid when we were 2 - and

suddenly i'm

> a slut for giving him a hug - I was closer to him than a brother,

in a

> brother/sister way. WTF

>

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