vegetarian was Re: Need help saving some NT children

[Guest guest]

I don't get the connection between animal rights and vegetarianism.

If it's OK for a cat to eat meat, shouldn't it be OK for humans? And

if you think it's not OK for a cat to eat meat, how can you say you

support animal rights?

Ettina

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> > I know the title sounds odd and its going to take a bit to

explain so

> > grab a drink and sit back.

> >

> > When I was explaining the autism spectrum to my mother I really

> > stressed the point I did not want my aunt to know about it. This

women

> > fits munchausen, she also puts her children thru hell. We have

yet to

> > figure out a way to stop the punishment her children go through.

> >

> > Here are some examples of hell.

> >

> > One child had an alergic reaction to almonds, so she took all of

her

> > children, ages 20, 15, 4 and 2 to have loads of allergy testing,

it

> > was the 4 year old that had the problem and none of the other

children

> > had ever had a problem with any food prior.

> >

> > Oldest was on rideline(cant spell it, the ADHD drug) for years. He

> > now has nervous twitches along other odd problems.

> >

> > The daughter is bulimic (vomits her food up).

> >

> > One child passed out after seeing his mother give blood, she said

it

> > was a seizure. He spent a bunch of time with various doctors

including

> > nerologists getting all kinds of testing done on him, at 3 years

old.

> > Of course they found no sign of any problems at all.

> >

> > She put her youngest through all kinds of testing saying that she

> > thought he was mentally retarded, which he isnt (big surprise

huh?)

> >

> > Every one of these children has inhalers and breathing treatments.

> >

> > Ok so by now you should get the idea.

> >

> > So my mother has a big mouth and told her. Now two months later

she

> > has found a doctor to refer her to a psychitrist for AS becuase he

> > thinks her and all 4 of her children have it(and her brother, my

uncle)

> >

> > She has always been all about the center of attention, goes out of

> > her way to get it.

> >

> > My uncle loves his church, he preaches sometimes, is in choir, and

> > just generally goes out of his way to be with large groups of

people.

> >

> > Her oldest wears whatever cloths are cool, and listens to pop

music

> > as well. She thinks that because he tortures animals and feels no

> > remorse he has it. He does like to torture animals she has the

part

> > right. He has a new girlfriend every few months. She says because

of

> > the rude things he says all the time its another sign. Of course

these

> > rude things he says are not truth but rude or cruel remarks that

have

> > no purpose beyond annoying or upsetting others.

> >

> > Number 2 child has bulimia, because we all know we go out of our

way

> > to look like what NTs say we should.... She is a lier, she loves

to

> > start trouble between her mother and stepfather as well as other

> > members of our family.

> >

> > Number 3 is a happy child that loves to be around people. Nothing

> > more to say really, he is about as NT as NT can get. This so

called

> > expert doctor told her that many autistics are left handed, and

that

> > his sometimes confusion of what hand to use is a sign of autism.

(he is

> > 4, uses his right hand all the time, the only confusion I see is

what

> > many small children do with crayons and whatnot with just

scribling

> > even with their none dominate hand)

> >

> > Only people in my entire family that are left handed other than me

> > are on my fathers side, not my mothers, the only people in my

entire

> > family that show any signs of autism are on my fathers side as

well.

> > my fathers side is tiny, my mothers side is huge, grandfather had

4

> > bothers/sisters, grandmother has 12 brothers/sisters. On my

fathers

> > side both my grandparents are only children, and they only had 2

kids.

> > Of the 10 people on my fathers side starting from grandparents

down

> > there are 4 of us that are left handed and 2 with autism.

> >

> > The fourth I have wondered about, he took awhile longer to talk,

just

> > over 2 before he started talking but I figured he was just lazy,

as

> > did the rest of my family beyond my aunt. He likes playing with

other

> > children and seems rather NT as well. Not to mention him, Number

3 and

> > number 2 where dancing and what not at my wedding, while I hide

in a

> > corner away from everyone (didn't know about autism at this time,

> > never would have gone through that hell had my wife known just

how bad

> > it was for me)

> >

> > These children love attention and beyond the youngest show no

signs

> > at all for any form of Autism.

> >

> > This supposed doctor told her that he thinks the youngest is low

> > function. He also told her that the reason the 3rd was having

seizures

> > (you know the ones all the other doctors said he wasnt having)

where

> > because he was overloading on information. Never mind the fact he

has

> > only passed out once, it was in a small room, with 2 other

people. She

> > says the the reason her children dont understand her is because

the

> > cant compute(I think this the word she used) what she is saying.

> >

> > I live in quackvile, doctors here are bad, the failures that cant

get

> > a job in a big city. The chances of a doctor listening to her is

> > rather high, even worse considering how much of Autism diagnosis

comes

> > from the input of parents. I fear she is going to have these

children

> > on unneeded medications ( and dangerous ones imo) was well as

theropy

> > they dont need and of course possibly a diagnoses that could hurt

them

> > in life(lets be fair the autism label no benifits in this twisted

> > world of ours)

> >

> > As you can imagine talking with this women is impossible, she is

> > right, everyone else is wrong unless its a doctor that agrees

with her.

> >

> > So my question is what do I do to stop this from happening? At

this

> > point the only conclusion I have come to is that IF she manages

to get

> > a dx and put any of them through unneeded treatments of any kind

I go

> > to child services and try and have her children taken from her.

This

> > is a horrible thing to do but I cant see life away from her being

any

> > worse then what these children face if they stay with her.

> >

> > I know this may seem odd but I am so upset and angry I cant stop

> > shaking and feel sick. I have to do something I just dont know

what to

> > do yet.

> >

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