Irritated!

[Guest guest]

Today I received an e-mail from my Aunt. The subject was " Being a

Mother. " It had a sappy story about a son who took his mother to

dinner by himself at the request of his wife. He had a nice time and

then several days later his mother died of a massive heart

attack...blah...blah...blah. Then the end has all this stuff

like " Somebody said a Mother can stop worrying after her child gets

married... somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or

daughter-in-law to a mother's heartstrings. "

No great surprise, this Aunt is one of the few my Nada hasn't cut out

of her life. She lives out of state and has mostly seen Nada under the

best of circumstances in short doses. What I'd really like to do is

send a note back that says, " Somebody said a Mother can stop worrying

after her child gets married...somebody doesn't know my BPD mother will

NEVER stop worrying about the things she has MADE UP about her daughter

and son-in-law. SOMEBODY should JUST BUTT OUT! "

Just a wee bit irritated!

JJFan