Going NC and being OK with it

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I have been soaking up all of the awesome topics and replys and

learning so much from all of you. My question is: How do you

eventually become peaceful about being NC with the BP or BPD in your

life? I've been NC with nada since July, and I feel like a storm is on

the horizen with her. My brother and I both are NC and I've told him I

won't be the one to try again with her. He's at a different stage than

I am. He's still in the bargaining mode. He still thinks he can get

the mom he's always wanted. I now know that will never happen.

Anyway, this NC mode I'm in feels temporary and I kind of feel guilty

about thinking I could make it permanent. One day I'm happy and feel

strong and confident about being NC, and then I'll have a nightmare and

get insecure about how I'm handling nada this way. I'm on an emotional

rollercoaster. Any thoughts for me from your experiences?

thanks,

geminitulip