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> 2.5 lbs 1 week (first week member)

> 212/170/115

Good job Charity! Congratulations on your first week's loss! Keep

it up :)

>^..^< Christy in Oklahoma <'}}}><

224.5 / 219.2 / 120 (-5.3)

OP since 9/4/02

WRITE it before you BITE it!

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My story is at http://msteechur.tripod.com. I plan to post new pictures

soon as I just hit -71 pounds. (I post every 10 pounds. Yes, I am that

vain.) <wink>

> new here

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> I am considering starting weight watchers but before i do i want to

> see if people are having success with this system if anyone on here

> has a good success stories please let me hear them. dawn

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  • 5 years later...
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I'm so glad to find all of this. My mom was constantly diagnosed

through out my life with bipolar. She's been in and out of instutions

as long as I can remember. A close friend of mine who works in a

psychiatric hospital suggested that my mom might have been misdiagnosed

all of these years and asked me to look up BPD. This has been an eye

opener. " I always wanted to be normal " I see that statement everywhere

and GOD do I know what that feels like. I (and my family) always felt

so crazy. My mom could change from Super mom in public to a nightmare

in the house. So many things I don't know where to start. She was a

cutter, and even when I was small I remember her making us look at her

cutting herself telling us it was our fault. I never knew what I did. I

went from an overachiever to not caring at all. You can never please

her.

I'm in a messy situation with my mom right now. She's unbelievable. I

love her so much but I can not handle much more of her.

Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! I now worry constantly that I'll make the same

mistakes with my children. I love them so much that I don't want them

to doubt one minute of my love.

Dont know what I need.

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  • 3 years later...

Hi cutie-Mim

First, my heart breaks for you - my mothers LBD Surfaced when I was in my 40s

and although it was tragic - she was able to see her grandchildren and care for

them in a meaningful way for a long while since my bro and I married and had

children young '

so I especially understand how devastating LBD with a mom is when you r just

beginning the prime of

Your life which generally should be a chapter filled with great excitement and

joy !! How is your father holding up?

Also has she been put on the right medications so as to delay some of the worst

symptoms and also be on guard and check thru the archives of this site to see

what Meds could make the disease worse!!

Whenever this disease hits and whomever it impacts in family there are always

feelings of grief and sorrow that at times are unbearable!!

Suggestions for you: try to find a good therapist/ counselor / clergyman who u

see on a regular basis

Also check to see if there are any LBD in person support groups in your area!'

Most of all - take care of yourself and preserve your bond with your husband-

enjoy the kids - and strive for the work u love !!

You sound like a devoted daughter and it looks like your parents longed to have

you- at the same time I bet you your mother if she could express it would want u

to go

On with your life with all the good energy amd success that is part of these new

beginnings!!

You are not alone and u have found a

Good place to lay your head and heart when the going gets tough !!

I'm thinking of you!! God bless your mom and your whole family!!

Judy

Judy R. Strauss LMSW PhD

Lead Faculty

University of Phoenix

Jersey City Campus

100 Town Square Place

|Jersey City, NJ 07310

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> Hi! I'm new to this group, so I will give you some background about me. My mom

was diagnosed almost a year ago with LBD. She had been showing various signs for

over four years now after she had a knee replacement surgery that went horribly

wrong. She is only 64. My parents adopted me when they were older therefore

making me only 26 right now. So I was just wondering if there is anyone else

here in this group that is young like me and going through this, because I'm

really struggling with this. I'm at the age where I'm just starting my life,

getting married, having kids, finding my forever career; and I feel like I don't

have my mom anymore to be there for me. Can anyone else relate?

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