Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Ann, you have my sympathy. This is a terible journey for everyone involved. It is hearbreaking to endure while it is going on and it is hearbreaking at the end to cope with the loss. You are in my thoughts and I wish you peace. Nan > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Ann, Â I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. Â Many condolences, Subject: Re: The old man's friend To: LBDcaregivers Date: Friday, March 4, 2011, 4:50 PM Â Ann, you have my sympathy. This is a terible journey for everyone involved. It is hearbreaking to endure while it is going on and it is hearbreaking at the end to cope with the loss. You are in my thoughts and I wish you peace. Nan > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Ann, my condolences on the passing of your dad. Sending you strength. From: Ann on Sent: Friday, March 04, 2011 5:43 PM To: LBDcaregivers Subject: The old man's friend Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Ann, You have my deepest sympathies on your loss. Lori The old man's friend Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Dear Ann, Please accept my condolonces on the passing of your dad. I am so happy that his last moments were in peace. Hugs, Ferhan Istanbul/Turkey ________________________________ To: LBDcaregivers Sent: Sat, March 5, 2011 12:43:59 AM Subject: The old man's friend  Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 4, 2011 Report Share Posted March 4, 2011 Ann - my condolences on the passing of your dear ole dad. You've been a wonderful daughter and I'm sure he appreciates all that you've done for him. Take all the time you need to grieve and do something special for yourself. > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Dear Ann, My sincere condolences to you on your Dad's passing. I'm glad to read that it was peaceful. Thank you for all your posts; they have been so helpful to me. Sending you comfort and hugs, Helene (Mom 77 years old today, 11 years with LBD, in the Bronx, NY) > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Ann, I was so sorry to hear of your father's passing. It was good to know it was peaceful for your family. And now the grieving begans. You will miss him I am sure. Take care of yourself. Hugs, Donna R Cared for Mom 3 years in my home and the last year at a nh. She passed away from LBD in 2002. The old man's friend Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Dear Ann, My heartfelt condolences to you on your Dad's passing. He was very fortunate in having you care for him. Peace to you. I'm sure everyone shares the hope that we will have someone like you beside us when it is our time. The last sentence in your posting gives me hope: " The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. "  I want very much to be able to care for my husband at home until the end.  When you are able ( and others also), share with me the best way to make this possible. Teri  Subject: The old man's friend To: LBDcaregivers Date: Friday, March 4, 2011, 2:43 PM  Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Ann, I am sending you my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss,but am happy your father no longer has to battle this dreaded disease. Kathy from MN ________________________________ To: LBDcaregivers Sent: Fri, March 4, 2011 4:43:59 PM Subject: The old man's friend  Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH neuropathology department. Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three hospitalizations, each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. Thank you all. Best regards, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Ann, My condolences on the loss of your dear father. It's amazing that he didn't struggle with dying for many days...he just left very decisively. Thank you for donating your father's brain to Harvard. That's a very generous gift from your father, that your family has made possible. Robin > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2011 Report Share Posted March 5, 2011 Ann: I am so sorry about the loss of your father but as we all know who have lost our loved ones this way, he is certainly in a better place than here with this terrible disease. He is at peace and rest and his pain and suffering gone forever. Try to keep that in mind as you go through the days and months ahead. After a while, keep in touch and let us know how things are going for you. Leona: Caregiver for husband Ray, age 68, diagnosed 2/04 with Parkinson's Disease. Changed doctors, diagnosed 6/06 with LBD. Almost continual downhill slide no matter what drugs we try. 5/2/08 Ray was placed in Sunrise Nursing Home in Oswego, NY, 1 hour from home. So far, so good! Hardest thing I have ever done in my life, however. 3/19/09 transferred to Samaritan Keep NH in Watertown, NY closer to home. He passed peacefully at 5:18 am on April 14, 2009. I am handling it OK. 'Love is not finding someone to live with; it's finding someone you don't want to live without.' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2011 Report Share Posted March 7, 2011 Ann, my deepest condolences on the passing of your beloved Dad. May you find peace that he is no longer suffering and is free from this horrible disease. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Sending you big heartfelt hugs, from NYC Daughter of Celestino (Tino) Suarez Misdiagnosed for years. Diagnosed with LBD March 2009, but we now know he's had it for at least 4-5 years. God called him home on October 27, 2009. Rest in peace, Daddy. (January 29, 1930 - October 27, 2009) > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 7, 2011 Report Share Posted March 7, 2011 Sending you ease and lovingkindness. I lost my father to pneumonia 6 weeks ago. I've been riding the waves as best I can. Losing a father is like losing the " captain of the ship. " I felt very adrift the first few weeks and I am now starting to feel my captain guiding me through the grief. Take good care and know that we are all with you in spirit. Love, Kelli > > > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > > neuropathology department. > > > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > > hospitalizations, > > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > > Thank you all. > > > > > > Best regards, > > > > Ann > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2011 Report Share Posted March 13, 2011 Oh, Dear Ann... I have not checked the messages until today. Your dad is now happy and free of this disease. I hope that you are taking care of yourself...I know how hard these days can be. Hugs and blessings, Joan > > Dad died yesterday afternoon of pneumonia. I saw him the previous > evening and he seemed normal. At 7:30 the next morning he had a > terrible rattle in his chest. The hospice nurse diagnosed acute > pneumonia. He was aware of his surroundings and visitors in the > morning and even ate a small dish of chocolate ice-cream. By 1PM > he slipped into a coma and slowly stopped breathing. His death > was very peaceful. We've donated his brain to the Harvard/MGH > neuropathology department. > > Dad's life contracted violently in November of 2005, which he started > as an independent 83 year old and ended having given up driving, cooking, > and shopping. Over the next five years, he lost nearly everything - walking, > talking, recognizing friends and family. He suffered three > hospitalizations, > each of which required 24-hour attendant to avoid further injury. The > information from this list has helped avoid other problems and allowed > him to remain at home, generally content, and generally in good health. > Thank you all. > > > Best regards, > > Ann > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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