suggestions on moving seemingly unmovable?

[Guest guest]

My dad is at the stage of LBD in which he will not stand when asked to. This is

usually during the sundowning hours and into the night. Of course moving him

into bed or onto the commode or anywhere is extremely difficult as he outweighs

me and he is still very strong. In fact he seems to put 'his brakes on' every

chance he gets and resists all efforts to help him. I've been caring for him for

over 3 years but I know he probably doesn't know who I am most days. ANY and all

suggestions regarding this phase of care when your loved one reached it? Also

how about shaving? His head hangs onto his chest and I do my best to hold him up

with one hand but I feel like I'm holding a fifty pound weight!. Maybe I am

getting weaker and he is getting stronger..lol! Thanks once again, you are all

life savers to me!

Dot