What to do when a mom is not diagnosed?

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After years (35) of suffering with a mother that I believe has BPD,

is there any hope that she will open up to the possibility she has

BPD and get the help she needs??????

I cannot see much hope at this time in our having a relationship if

she dosn't get some help and at least have some awareness of what she

does. She is still in the mode of thinking it is always somebody

else's fault.

We have been apart for 3.5 years, becuase I needed a break from

raising my mother - and for the 1st time in my life I decided to

focus on me.

It's been an eye-opener.

But as an only child, I feel guilty and as usual, like I'm the one

who needs to take care of things.

Is there success with group therapy for a child with a parent with

BPD?