WARNING SEXUAL CONTENT Re: Re: Nadas and sexual development

[Guest guest]

You're right. She definitly shouldn't have done those things.

> >

> > Mercy, Your mom definitely did send mixed messages about sex.

And

> > that was weird to tell you to get a condom. She should have

been

> > more supportive. However, I don't think that it's her fault

that

> > you were raped, or that your first experience was rape.

> >

> > That was the fault of the man who did it. Still, I do believe

> that

> > being in abusive homes makes us more vulnerable to being

> > victimized. Because, it is confusing, lowers our self esteem

and

> > makes us more fragile. I remember hearing a rapist on the news

say

> > that he can spot a girl like that out of a hundred girls,

walking

> in

> > the mall, and he can do it in a minute.

> >

>