Re: **PAT M** Fw: [LBD_caringspouses] Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu Shots, Anyone?

[Guest guest]

My Observations:

 

Mass Confusion.... " pick up your feet, , help/let me get these depends on

you "  

Absolutely no Response, turns and walks away (door #1)

Starts to pull off his shirt (door #2)

Blankly stares at me, sits and does not one thing (door #3)

Balance is completely off and his timing is atrocious; can't find his mouth to

brush his teeth in the morning. 

He's having trouble raising his arms up so I can get shirts on him.

(this greatly affects me as I have to manually and forcefully do that for

him....causes me to feel so exhausted and sore *sigh*

Having no desire and making no effort to eat or feed himself.  I've not had to

spoon food into his mouth before now.

Sleep schedule is all festeraced* up.  Wants to sleep all day long and try and

wander all night long.  NO BUENO @#$%^^ & *()

He's never one time raised his hand to me until this week.

His speech is really garbled up, can't make out what he's trying to say more

than half the time.  Plus he's whispering a whole lot more!

He's not laughing, smiling, just not his old affable self one bit.  He just

seems to have lost the ability to interact properly.

He's cranky, too.  Is acting like a bratty smart ass.  I keep telling him that's

exactly why they don't send donkey's to school....NoBody Likes a Smart aSS!

THERE ARE MANY MORE THINGS THAT I'M NOTICING, PAT.  Just let's leave it that

is definitely off his game and about 9 back of book!

Again, really feel sad to sound so Negative....I try not to do that and be that

way.....this week?  I AM THE WEAK ONE

MJ

 Jo

>To: LBDcaregivers

>Sent: Sunday, September 25, 2011 6:25 PM

>Subject: Re: Fw: [LBD_caringspouses] Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu

Shots, Anyone?

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>What are you seeing that is different than prior to the flu shot?

>Pat M.

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>> I found out very late that the county nurse would have come to the house if

>> I had asked. The trick is that you have to ask.  I always got Mom a flu

>> shot.  She did fine and I thought it would be better than the flu,

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>> Donna R

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>> [LBD_caringspouses] Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu Shots, Anyone?

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>> >What can anyone tell me about getting their spouse, relative the " flu

>> shot " ?

>> >Has anyone noticed or been plagued by any unusual reactions post flu shot?

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>> >Let Me Outta' Here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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[Guest guest]

I would have a doctor check him out and rule out infection as the cause.

This is about the way my mil is 'normally'. She had a very rapid decline -

these sorts of things happened and became a part of everyday life in a

matter weeks. She had no infections, but we did get things checked out to

be sure. Hope you have some help.

Dorothy

From: LBDcaregivers [mailto:LBDcaregivers ]

On Behalf Of Jo Blume

Sent: Sunday, September 25, 2011 6:51 PM

To: LBDcaregivers

Subject: Re: **PAT M** Fw: [LBD_caringspouses]

Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu Shots, Anyone?

My Observations:

Mass Confusion.... " pick up your feet, , help/let me get these depends on

you "

Absolutely no Response, turns and walks away (door #1)

Starts to pull off his shirt (door #2)

Blankly stares at me, sits and does not one thing (door #3)

Balance is completely off and his timing is atrocious; can't find his mouth

to brush his teeth in the morning.

He's having trouble raising his arms up so I can get shirts on him.

(this greatly affects me as I have to manually and forcefully do that for

him....causes me to feel so exhausted and sore *sigh*

Having no desire and making no effort to eat or feed himself. I've not had

to spoon food into his mouth before now.

Sleep schedule is all festeraced* up. Wants to sleep all day long and try

and wander all night long. NO BUENO @#$%^^ & *()

He's never one time raised his hand to me until this week.

His speech is really garbled up, can't make out what he's trying to say more

than half the time. Plus he's whispering a whole lot more!

He's not laughing, smiling, just not his old affable self one bit. He just

seems to have lost the ability to interact properly.

He's cranky, too. Is acting like a bratty smart ass. I keep telling him

that's exactly why they don't send donkey's to school....NoBody Likes a

Smart aSS!

THERE ARE MANY MORE THINGS THAT I'M NOTICING, PAT. Just let's leave it that

is definitely off his game and about 9 back of book!

Again, really feel sad to sound so Negative....I try not to do that and be

that way.....this week? I AM THE WEAK ONE

MJ

Jo

From: Mayhew <pmayhew53@... <mailto:pmayhew53%40gmail.com> >

>To: LBDcaregivers <mailto:LBDcaregivers%40yahoogroups.com>

>Sent: Sunday, September 25, 2011 6:25 PM

>Subject: Re: Fw: [LBD_caringspouses] Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu

Shots, Anyone?

>

>What are you seeing that is different than prior to the flu shot?

>Pat M.

>

>On Sun, Sep 25, 2011 at 7:11 PM, <twomido@...

<mailto:twomido%40comcast.net> > wrote:

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>> I found out very late that the county nurse would have come to the house

if

>> I had asked. The trick is that you have to ask. I always got Mom a flu

>> shot. She did fine and I thought it would be better than the flu,

>>

>> Donna R

>>

>> [LBD_caringspouses] Shit-oh-Dear.....Flu Shots, Anyone?

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> >

>> >What can anyone tell me about getting their spouse, relative the " flu

>> shot " ?

>> >Has anyone noticed or been plagued by any unusual reactions post flu

shot?

>>

>> >

>> >Let Me Outta' Here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

>> >mj

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