RE: Dorothy / feeding tubes

January 20, 2011

Hi Dorothy- I didn't realize one could " recover " from a feeding tube either

until it happened with my dad. We were faced with a similar situation in Sept.

of 2002 and I (having POA) opted not to have the tube inserted that time. My

dad had progressed so far into the LBD that I didn't see the point. It appeared

he had made up his mind not to eat as he would turn his head away from food,

clenching his jaws, and would even flail his arm at the utensil. After a couple

different meals of trying to feed him and this happening I realized what he was

doing. Thank you for informing me of the new advance directive wording. I was

unaware of that. Wishing you all the best and much strength- Sandie

Des Moines, IAdad, Merle, passed from LBD 9-20-02, age 65

----- feeding tubes

Date: Wed, 19 Jan 2011 14:36:01 -0000

Ferhan, please know that we do use them in the U.S. It's a hard decision to

make but one that is personal and depends on the circumstances at the time.

Please know that the tube can be removed if the person begins eating again

(though I realize this may be unlikely). It really depends on how much you

perceive the person is still here with you and if you think it's best for

the person as well as for you. As for using it, know that it's very easy and

doesn't require much care. I can give you more information if you'd like. I

wish you well.

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