Guest guest Posted December 22, 2011 Report Share Posted December 22, 2011 > I have seen it happen (the phenomenon he describes, of typical people coming to act more Aspie as they learn from us) There are also, of course, many cases in which it does not happen. Does anyone think that when it does happen it may on many occasions simply be that by being around people who display and accept unusual traits others may feel less need to hide some of their own? That it's giving them a freedom, rather than somehow forcing them to be like us? This is a little different, but I learned a lot about being autistic from joining forums like inlv and ANI-L, and started doing things that might have made me look more outwardly autistic but actually were usefully copying ways others on spectrum had adapted things to their needs. Examples include wearing socks inside out (as the toe hem irritates) and cutting labels out of clothes. I don't think it's wrong to feel ok or even good about doing things differently. And I think it's great if we ACs can sometimes provide space where NTs can be a little less repressive and normal! Ruth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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