Re: OT: Apologies and farewell

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Hi Jan ,

I did not see anything rong in your post ? May be I missed it I do not read everything .

I seldome miss your posts because you say what you really experienced and always with your gentle touch too .If all the people who know that much leaves, then it becomes an herculous job ot share th einfo for the remaining old timers when a new comer pop up . i tis very discoraging . i find myself very frustrating when someone doe snto beleive what I write again and again and I may get tempted just to drop ht eperson I resist to this temptation as sick people do no tlet their personnality out of their post and may be very sick and very stubburned and tunnla vision too . I try to stay patient .

Please stay as we really need you here and appreciate you deeply . If you need to post less often that is fine it is possible to get less involved yet to be there for people we see have very similar situation than ours, we may be the only one capable of getting them out of their lymme prison with what we experience .

I you would decide to go anyway may I ask you your private email adress so I can stay in touch with you please ?

With all my most deep thanks for everything you have done for me and for everyone on this forum in the past.

Kindly Marie

To: Lyme_and_Rife Sent: Sunday, August 12, 2012 12:56 PMSubject: OT: Apologies and farewell

To all,After sleeping on it, I want to say that I regret my posts from yesterday, regarding the thread on the F-Scan. I presented what I believed to be logical objections to the results of the scan, based on current scientific data on Lyme. But - I could have done that in a manner that was more congenial and respectful. I was out of line, and I want to express my apologies to all involved.To Terry B., personally - again, I regret that I went a bit too far in expressing my doubts about your choice of practitoner, treatment, etc. In hindsight, I could have offered just the science (respectfully), and left out the rest. I am sorry to have crossed the line. We are all sick, and what we truly need is support and understanding.I do understand the need that some people have to be very active on these boards, and that's fine. It's really not my place to judge. If the discussion is respectful and considerate of others, well - that's

the way to go. I'm truly sorry that my posts did not conform to that vision.It is also apparent to me, that the window for my participation in this group has passed. I will be moving on (I had intended to for some time). Most every member who began this journey at the same time as I did, has already moved along. I will join them.I want to express my sincere thanks to this group, for helping me in so many ways, to overcome Lyme, and to embrace alternative methods of healing.May you all benefit, as I have, from this group. I wish you all the best on your healing journey.- Jane

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hi jane, i do understand how you feel.  when we put in so much effort and time we sometimes wear ourselves out 'giving'.  please consider taking a break for a while as it sometimes help.

please stay/come back if you can as you have lots of good info. to share and we need you.  please don't be discouraged.barbara

 

Hi Jan ,

 

I did not see anything rong in your post ? May be I missed it I do not read everything .

I seldome miss your posts because you say what you really experienced and always with your gentle touch too .If all the people who know that much leaves, then it becomes an herculous job ot share th einfo  for the remaining old timers when a new comer  pop up . i tis very discoraging . i find myself very frustrating when someone doe snto beleive what I write again and again and I may get tempted just to drop ht eperson I resist to this temptation as sick people do no tlet their personnality out of their post and may be very sick and very stubburned and tunnla vision too . I try to stay patient .

Please stay as we really need you here and appreciate you deeply . If you need to post less often that is fine it is possible to get less involved yet to be there for people we see  have very similar situation than ours, we may be the only one capable of getting them out of their lymme prison with what we experience .

 

I you would decide to go anyway may I ask you your private email adress so I can stay in touch with you please ?

With all my most deep thanks for everything you have done for me and for everyone on this forum in the past.

 

Kindly Marie    

To: Lyme_and_Rife Sent: Sunday, August 12, 2012 12:56 PM

Subject: OT: Apologies and farewell

 

To all,After sleeping on it, I want to say that I regret my posts from yesterday, regarding the thread on the F-Scan. I presented what I believed to be logical objections to the results of the scan, based on current scientific data on Lyme. But - I could have done that in a manner that was more congenial and respectful. I was out of line, and I want to express my apologies to all involved.

To Terry B., personally - again, I regret that I went a bit too far in expressing my doubts about your choice of practitoner, treatment, etc. In hindsight, I could have offered just the science (respectfully), and left out the rest. I am sorry to have crossed the line. We are all sick, and what we truly need is support and understanding.

I do understand the need that some people have to be very active on these boards, and that's fine. It's really not my place to judge. If the discussion is respectful and considerate of others, well - that's

the way to go. I'm truly sorry that my posts did not conform to that vision.It is also apparent to me, that the window for my participation in this group has passed. I will be moving on (I had intended to for some time). Most every member who began this journey at the same time as I did, has already moved along. I will join them.

I want to express my sincere thanks to this group, for helping me in so many ways, to overcome Lyme, and to embrace alternative methods of healing.May you all benefit, as I have, from this group. I wish you all the best on your healing journey.

- Jane

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Dear Jane,

That was a lovely apology. If you feel our support group no longer meets your

needs and vice versa, then I wish you well in all your future endeavors. But I

agree with Marie--perhaps you could have been more tactful and diplomatic in

what you wrote, but I thought your explanation was quite valuable. As long as

we live and no matter what we do, there is always room for improvement and

growth.

Khaya

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> Hi Jan ,

>  

> I did not see anything rong in your post ? May be I missed it I do not read

everything .

> I seldome miss your posts because you say what you really experienced

and always with your gentle touch too .

> If all the people who know that much leaves, then it becomes an herculous job

ot share th einfo  for the remaining old timers when a new comer  pop up . i

tis very discoraging . i find myself very frustrating when someone doe snto

beleive what I write again and again and I may get tempted just to drop ht

eperson I resist to this temptation as sick people do no tlet their personnality

out of their post and may be very sick and very stubburned and tunnla vision too

.. I try to stay patient .

> Please stay as we really need you here and appreciate you deeply . If you

need to post less often that is fine it is possible to get less involved yet to

be there for people we see  have very similar situation than ours, we may be

the only one capable of getting them out of their lymme prison with what we

experience .

>  

> I you would decide to go anyway may I ask you your private email adress so I

can stay in touch with you please ?

> With all my most deep thanks for everything you have done for me and for

everyone on this forum in the past.

>  

> Kindly Marie    

>

>

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> To: Lyme_and_Rife

> Sent: Sunday, August 12, 2012 12:56 PM

> Subject: OT: Apologies and farewell

>

>

>  

> To all,

>

> After sleeping on it, I want to say that I regret my posts from yesterday,

regarding the thread on the F-Scan. I presented what I believed to be logical

objections to the results of the scan, based on current scientific data on Lyme.

But - I could have done that in a manner that was more congenial and respectful.

I was out of line, and I want to express my apologies to all involved.

>

> To Terry B., personally - again, I regret that I went a bit too far in

expressing my doubts about your choice of practitoner, treatment, etc. In

hindsight, I could have offered just the science (respectfully), and left out

the rest. I am sorry to have crossed the line. We are all sick, and what we

truly need is support and understanding.

>

> I do understand the need that some people have to be very active on these

boards, and that's fine. It's really not my place to judge. If the discussion is

respectful and considerate of others, well - that's the way to go. I'm truly

sorry that my posts did not conform to that vision.

>

> It is also apparent to me, that the window for my participation in this group

has passed. I will be moving on (I had intended to for some time). Most every

member who began this journey at the same time as I did, has already moved

along. I will join them.

>

> I want to express my sincere thanks to this group, for helping me in so many

ways, to overcome Lyme, and to embrace alternative methods of healing.

>

> May you all benefit, as I have, from this group. I wish you all the best on

your healing journey.

>

> - Jane

>