Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

[Guest guest]

, I understand those feelings completely. I was so bad, I had to metally

prepare myself to make a phone call!! I would become clumsy in social situations

because I was so nervous and that would make things worse. I know a lot of

things have been said about Paxil, but for me it has been a life saver. The

change in me has been incredible. Im like a social butterfly now!! I wish they

would have had this med when I was a teenager. I would have missed out on so

much agony. Like I stated before, these meds can either be a miracle or a

nightmare. I plan on staying on Paxil for the rest of my life. The quality of

life I have now outweighs to me what my life would be like without it. My body

chemistry lacks seretonun and Paxil gives me that to function properly. The only

side effect I have is sexual dysfunction. But I noticed that the feeling for sex

is not there BUT once I just go with the flow and let it happen, I do get

stimulated ( sorry guys, Im having a hard time explaining what I mean). Anyways

this is just my perspective, everyone is different, .

Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

Ang that big list in your other post.....it says " after I took prozac " .

The email before that was about paxil......have you taken both????? I do

realize that the one list is from someone else saying " after I took prozac " .

But have you had an experience with both medications?

And your young son was actually on one of these meds???

And to think I was actually going to make an appointment to go see my doctor

so I could try paxil. Medications scare me, too many side effects while on them,

and then more when you stop taking them.When I was working I use to be such a

people person. Everyone would mention how good I was with the public. Not

anymore!!!!!! It all started the last year of work, and of course being at home

the last 5 years has made things even worse for me. I am in my " safe zone " and

it is so hard to leave it. Even going to my parents house scares me. I've been

there before and sitting talking to my parents and it's like all of a sudden I

just HAVE to get out of there. It is an awful feeling.

There is only a couple people that I have shared this with, even Kerry doesn't

know about it. He just thinks I get really nervous when it comes to social

outings. He doesn't realize how I have to mentally prepare myself to go out

shopping, or go to my parents. Even if it is just a quick jump in the car and go

to the store for smokes. I usually leave that stuff for him. If I know he will

be going out, then I make a list of things for him to get. I always say " well

since you are going out, why make two trips " .

And it works, so I keep doing it.

Anyone else understand these feelings???

Take Care

[Guest guest]

The only side effect I have is sexual dysfunction. But I noticed

that the feeling for sex is not there BUT once I just go with the

flow and let it happen, I do get stimulated ( sorry guys, Im having a

hard time explaining what I mean). Anyways this is just my

perspective, everyone is different, .

.....I know what you mean. I was never 'in the mood'. But I'd tell

my husband to 'go ahead and start without me' - and once he worked at

it a while I would come around.

Ang

[Guest guest]

You said it perfect Ang, that is exactly what I meant.

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

The only side effect I have is sexual dysfunction. But I noticed

that the feeling for sex is not there BUT once I just go with the

flow and let it happen, I do get stimulated ( sorry guys, Im having a

hard time explaining what I mean). Anyways this is just my

perspective, everyone is different, .

....I know what you mean. I was never 'in the mood'. But I'd tell

my husband to 'go ahead and start without me' - and once he worked at

it a while I would come around.

Ang

[Guest guest]

I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

you said once things got a little heated then it was

fine. Tammi

=====

" Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your life, but I'd rather be

the moon that shines down on you in your darkest hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

That's awsome that it works for you. It really does work well for

some people. Now the sex thing. That was the worst for me since I

don't have a strong sex drive. We would go months because I just

couldn't get into it at all and it would hurt.

Michel

> , I understand those feelings completely. I was so bad, I

had to metally prepare myself to make a phone call!! I would become

clumsy in social situations because I was so nervous and that would

make things worse. I know a lot of things have been said about Paxil,

but for me it has been a life saver. The change in me has been

incredible. Im like a social butterfly now!! I wish they would have

had this med when I was a teenager. I would have missed out on so

much agony. Like I stated before, these meds can either be a miracle

or a nightmare. I plan on staying on Paxil for the rest of my life.

The quality of life I have now outweighs to me what my life would be

like without it. My body chemistry lacks seretonun and Paxil gives me

that to function properly. The only side effect I have is sexual

dysfunction. But I noticed that the feeling for sex is not there BUT

once I just go with the flow and let it happen, I do get stimulated (

sorry guys, Im having a hard time explaining what I mean). Anyways

this is just my perspective, everyone is different, .

> Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

> Ang that big list in your other post.....it says " after I took

prozac " .

> The email before that was about paxil......have you taken

both????? I do realize that the one list is from someone else

saying " after I took prozac " .

> But have you had an experience with both medications?

> And your young son was actually on one of these meds???

>

> And to think I was actually going to make an appointment to go

see my doctor so I could try paxil. Medications scare me, too many

side effects while on them, and then more when you stop taking

them.When I was working I use to be such a people person. Everyone

would mention how good I was with the public. Not anymore!!!!!! It

all started the last year of work, and of course being at home the

last 5 years has made things even worse for me. I am in my " safe

zone " and it is so hard to leave it. Even going to my parents house

scares me. I've been there before and sitting talking to my parents

and it's like all of a sudden I just HAVE to get out of there. It is

an awful feeling.

>

> There is only a couple people that I have shared this with, even

Kerry doesn't know about it. He just thinks I get really nervous when

it comes to social outings. He doesn't realize how I have to mentally

prepare myself to go out shopping, or go to my parents. Even if it is

just a quick jump in the car and go to the store for smokes. I

usually leave that stuff for him. If I know he will be going out,

then I make a list of things for him to get. I always say " well since

you are going out, why make two trips " .

> And it works, so I keep doing it.

>

> Anyone else understand these feelings???

>

> Take Care

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

There's nothing 'wrong' with you Laney. There were years I went

through that too. Mental state (stress, depression, worry, finance,

kids - you name it), and the way you feel abut your body too - big

time. Maybe he isn't sensative enought to take care of you if you

know what I mean? For me the thing was that I thought my husband was

just 'wanting to fool around' --- I wanted him to 'want me'. Silly

girl stuff - but we can't help it!

Then....I turned 30.....

Meds and lack of vitamins can be a problem. And so can the mere fact

of not enough......hmmm, is it ok I continue this, or maybe I should

go elswhere??? These things can get a bit 'over 18(ish)'

But regardless - don't try to point the finger at you personally.

Ang

> I never have a desire for sex anyway and haven't for years....I

actually dread going to bed sometimes because I don't want DH to

start groping me. I get really annoyed and just want it to stop or to

get it over with ASAP. What's wrong with me???-Laney-

[Guest guest]

lol..well leave it to me to just plurt out what i was thinking with out

considering the age group here----I do apologize and hope i have offended no

one-----

kimber/southfl

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

There's nothing 'wrong' with you Laney. There were years I went

through that too. Mental state (stress, depression, worry, finance,

kids - you name it), and the way you feel abut your body too - big

time. Maybe he isn't sensative enought to take care of you if you

know what I mean? For me the thing was that I thought my husband was

just 'wanting to fool around' --- I wanted him to 'want me'. Silly

girl stuff - but we can't help it!

Then....I turned 30.....

Meds and lack of vitamins can be a problem. And so can the mere fact

of not enough......hmmm, is it ok I continue this, or maybe I should

go elswhere??? These things can get a bit 'over 18(ish)'

But regardless - don't try to point the finger at you personally.

Ang

> I never have a desire for sex anyway and haven't for years....I

actually dread going to bed sometimes because I don't want DH to

start groping me. I get really annoyed and just want it to stop or to

get it over with ASAP. What's wrong with me???-Laney-

[Guest guest]

what the hell is up with that-----I mean grope my breast like you

mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

..........LOL, Too funny! Or acting like they are trying to tune in a

radio? LOL.

> Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

make me want to persue you more

.........Oh my gosh - that man would not get to see or touch me for

SOOOOOO long! Bad bad man!!!

I found a cure for all that....When I get good forplay, he gets good

responce. I get that jump on thing - he gets to do just that - jump

on and do your thing buddy - then give me your t-shirt.

He also knows that if he doens't take care of me - he's going to be

up half the night till he finishes the job. No more Mrs. nice

girl...that just plain sucks when they get you going then leave you

lay there 1/2 perked! No wonderr why so many women don't want

anything do to with it - it's just fustrting. Just a few nights ago

he 'finished to quick' - said I got to intence to quick....I told

him " good thing your lips still work " . " why's that? " he wanted to

know....I told him " because I'm not done yet! "

Ang

[Guest guest]

Oh gosh - add me to that as well....I got carried away responding to

your reply and completley forgot where I was....at the same time I

have another page open to a bunch of guys hammering on women about

you name it....

> lol..well leave it to me to just plurt out what i was thinking with

out considering the age group here----I do apologize and hope i have

offended no one-----

> kimber/southfl

> Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

> There's nothing 'wrong' with you Laney. There were years I went

> through that too. Mental state (stress, depression, worry,

finance,

> kids - you name it), and the way you feel abut your body too -

big

> time. Maybe he isn't sensative enought to take care of you if

you

> know what I mean? For me the thing was that I thought my husband

was

> just 'wanting to fool around' --- I wanted him to 'want me'.

Silly

> girl stuff - but we can't help it!

> Then....I turned 30.....

> Meds and lack of vitamins can be a problem. And so can the mere

fact

> of not enough......hmmm, is it ok I continue this, or maybe I

should

> go elswhere??? These things can get a bit 'over 18(ish)'

> But regardless - don't try to point the finger at you personally.

> Ang

>

>

> > I never have a desire for sex anyway and haven't for years....I

> actually dread going to bed sometimes because I don't want DH to

> start groping me. I get really annoyed and just want it to stop

or to

> get it over with ASAP. What's wrong with me???-Laney-

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

lol.....well thats my me as well-----its like we were bunnys for oh i dont

know-----16-17 years and then around the 18th year i started that what about

me????----thing i was talking about----and these last 2 years have been the

worst-----Now its like we go for 3 months and do it once and then i remember why

we hadnt done it for that long---lol. He would leave me hanging and he would

say--- " ill do better next time " ---yeah and then next time would never

come-----So i got this bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

kimber

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

what the hell is up with that-----I mean grope my breast like you

mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

.........LOL, Too funny! Or acting like they are trying to tune in a

radio? LOL.

> Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

make me want to persue you more

........Oh my gosh - that man would not get to see or touch me for

SOOOOOO long! Bad bad man!!!

I found a cure for all that....When I get good forplay, he gets good

responce. I get that jump on thing - he gets to do just that - jump

on and do your thing buddy - then give me your t-shirt.

He also knows that if he doens't take care of me - he's going to be

up half the night till he finishes the job. No more Mrs. nice

girl...that just plain sucks when they get you going then leave you

lay there 1/2 perked! No wonderr why so many women don't want

anything do to with it - it's just fustrting. Just a few nights ago

he 'finished to quick' - said I got to intence to quick....I told

him " good thing your lips still work " . " why's that? " he wanted to

know....I told him " because I'm not done yet! "

Ang

[Guest guest]

OMG now you hit a nerve. My hubby actually said that to me too. I

have one of the few men that don't want it all the time. He has to

be relaxed and have an uneventful day, and with Samy and my need to

go out that doesnt happen very often. He's home Tuesday through

friday and the only day we stay home is Friday and even then we'll

schedule a trip to the supermarket or something. Then Samy doesnt

take naps so we'd have to put her in her high chair in front of the

tv watching a video for it to happen. I'm not comfortable with that

so that leaves the night and by then I dont care who you are I'm

going to sleep!!! So at the present moment it ain't happenin much.

On average once a week. (I know pitiful) Anyhow the thing is he

doesn't have a huge sex drive. When we met he did but after we got

married I guess stress and responsibility came in the way and it has

been up and down since. One thing he did say and I know is in the

back of his head is the weight. Now he aint no skin and bones either

but you wont see me tell him hey lose the gut it gets in the way.

Yet he did mention to me b4 Samy was born (I dare him to say it now)

that if I lost weight he'd want it more. I almost killed him. Thing

is whether he meant it or not I will never forget it and I'm all self

conscious about my body to the point I want to hide in the covers or

will turn off all the lights. I think most of the times I just don't

feel sexy at all and WOOOOOOO Wonder who's fault it could

be...Hmmm...Anyhow I've always felt horrible about myself b/c of

that. I thought men were pigs (thanks to movies, tv. etc..) and all

they thought about was sex 24/7 and then some and I get the one who

didnt. You know what that does to your self esteem. San

> wow----I thought i was the only one----Not to get to personal laney-

---but...... How long have you been together-----Heres my view

> Number one ----opposites attracked----attract or something like

that----anyways----so im a positve and hes a negative---- or maybe im

trying to say dominate and submissive---okay >> and im not saying

like S & M or anthing like that---it just seems to me that after 18

years of marriage---im the giver and hes the taker/reciever. We did

what he wanted where he wanted and im not saying that i didnt like it

or anything------but there comes a time in every woman life ----WHEN

THEY SAY HEY!!!! WHAT ABOUT ME?????

> Yes its self centered and a tad selfish-----but a womans got needs

to!!!!! RIGHT?????------

> Another thing is what happened to romance----hell i dont have to

even call it romance-----Im talking about some down to earth

shattering kisses and for-play-----ya know what i mean?????? Its

like spit and hit-----what the hell is up with that-----I mean grope

my breast like you mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

> Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

make me want to persue you more-(GIRL----I WANTED TO PUT HIM THROUGH

THE SECOND FLOOR WALL AND LET HIM DROP)---But i said-----Our oldest

daughter is 19 years old---for 19 years i have weighed the same

andits just now dawned on you im overweight???? Anways that was about

2 years ago or maybe not quite that long ago-----Sometimes i think we

had so much sex we are just sexed out----lol-----now its like he

dosent know if he should approach me and well gee i still jiggle----

so i would want to offend him-------Dont you hate when they say

things in a fit of anger---and then when all is over and youve made

up-----they say oh i didnt mean that-------STICKS AND STONES MAY

BREAK MY BONES BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HARM ME-----ALL LIES!!!!!

> Kimber---who is fighting that darned headache---maybe it sexuall

frustration....lol

>

> Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

> I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

> me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

> you said once things got a little heated then it was

> fine. Tammi

>

>

>

> =====

> " Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your life,

but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your darkest

hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

What self esteem....lol

kimber

Where on a quarterly haul here....lol

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

> I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

> me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

> you said once things got a little heated then it was

> fine. Tammi

>

>

>

> =====

> " Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your life,

but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your darkest

hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

Ya - and I think the more pressure we put on them the harder it is

for them to fix the problem. What a mess!

Ang

> lol.....well thats my me as well-----its like we were bunnys for oh

i dont know-----16-17 years and then around the 18th year i started

that what about me????----thing i was talking about----and these last

2 years have been the worst-----Now its like we go for 3 months and

do it once and then i remember why we hadnt done it for that long---

lol. He would leave me hanging and he would say--- " ill do better next

time " ---yeah and then next time would never come-----So i got this

bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

> kimber

> Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

> what the hell is up with that-----I mean grope my breast like you

> mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

>

> .........LOL, Too funny! Or acting like they are trying to tune

in a

> radio? LOL.

>

> > Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

> make me want to persue you more

>

> ........Oh my gosh - that man would not get to see or touch me

for

> SOOOOOO long! Bad bad man!!!

>

> I found a cure for all that....When I get good forplay, he gets

good

> responce. I get that jump on thing - he gets to do just that -

jump

> on and do your thing buddy - then give me your t-shirt.

> He also knows that if he doens't take care of me - he's going to

be

> up half the night till he finishes the job. No more Mrs. nice

> girl...that just plain sucks when they get you going then leave

you

> lay there 1/2 perked! No wonderr why so many women don't want

> anything do to with it - it's just fustrting. Just a few nights

ago

> he 'finished to quick' - said I got to intence to quick....I told

> him " good thing your lips still work " . " why's that? " he wanted

to

> know....I told him " because I'm not done yet! "

>

> Ang

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I personaly think that they would want it 24/7 still if we were

someone new and exciting (even if we were perfect and beutiful, we

aren't new anymore). I think us wives are just old hat and boring

and they only want it when they NEED it after a while. Sure hope

that isn't true.

Ang

> OMG now you hit a nerve. My hubby actually said that to me too. I

> have one of the few men that don't want it all the time. He has to

> be relaxed and have an uneventful day, and with Samy and my need to

> go out that doesnt happen very often. He's home Tuesday through

> friday and the only day we stay home is Friday and even then we'll

> schedule a trip to the supermarket or something. Then Samy doesnt

> take naps so we'd have to put her in her high chair in front of the

> tv watching a video for it to happen. I'm not comfortable with

that

> so that leaves the night and by then I dont care who you are I'm

> going to sleep!!! So at the present moment it ain't happenin much.

> On average once a week. (I know pitiful) Anyhow the thing is he

> doesn't have a huge sex drive. When we met he did but after we got

> married I guess stress and responsibility came in the way and it

has

> been up and down since. One thing he did say and I know is in the

> back of his head is the weight. Now he aint no skin and bones

either

> but you wont see me tell him hey lose the gut it gets in the way.

> Yet he did mention to me b4 Samy was born (I dare him to say it

now)

> that if I lost weight he'd want it more. I almost killed him.

Thing

> is whether he meant it or not I will never forget it and I'm all

self

> conscious about my body to the point I want to hide in the covers

or

> will turn off all the lights. I think most of the times I just

don't

> feel sexy at all and WOOOOOOO Wonder who's fault it could

> be...Hmmm...Anyhow I've always felt horrible about myself b/c of

> that. I thought men were pigs (thanks to movies, tv. etc..) and

all

> they thought about was sex 24/7 and then some and I get the one who

> didnt. You know what that does to your self esteem. San

>

>

>

> > wow----I thought i was the only one----Not to get to personal

laney-

> ---but...... How long have you been together-----Heres my view

> > Number one ----opposites attracked----attract or something like

> that----anyways----so im a positve and hes a negative---- or maybe

im

> trying to say dominate and submissive---okay >> and im not saying

> like S & M or anthing like that---it just seems to me that after 18

> years of marriage---im the giver and hes the taker/reciever. We did

> what he wanted where he wanted and im not saying that i didnt like

it

> or anything------but there comes a time in every woman life ----

WHEN

> THEY SAY HEY!!!! WHAT ABOUT ME?????

> > Yes its self centered and a tad selfish-----but a womans got

needs

> to!!!!! RIGHT?????------

> > Another thing is what happened to romance----hell i dont have to

> even call it romance-----Im talking about some down to earth

> shattering kisses and for-play-----ya know what i mean?????? Its

> like spit and hit-----what the hell is up with that-----I mean

grope

> my breast like you mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

> > Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

> make me want to persue you more-(GIRL----I WANTED TO PUT HIM

THROUGH

> THE SECOND FLOOR WALL AND LET HIM DROP)---But i said-----Our oldest

> daughter is 19 years old---for 19 years i have weighed the same

> andits just now dawned on you im overweight???? Anways that was

about

> 2 years ago or maybe not quite that long ago-----Sometimes i think

we

> had so much sex we are just sexed out----lol-----now its like he

> dosent know if he should approach me and well gee i still jiggle----

> so i would want to offend him-------Dont you hate when they say

> things in a fit of anger---and then when all is over and youve made

> up-----they say oh i didnt mean that-------STICKS AND STONES MAY

> BREAK MY BONES BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HARM ME-----ALL LIES!!!!!

> > Kimber---who is fighting that darned headache---maybe it sexuall

> frustration....lol

> >

> > Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

> >

> >

> > I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

> > me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

> > you said once things got a little heated then it was

> > fine. Tammi

> >

> >

> >

> > =====

> > " Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your life,

> but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your darkest

> hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

[Guest guest]

Damn I never knew I'd be an old hat at 25 years of age...I sure hope

it ain't true... San

> > > wow----I thought i was the only one----Not to get to personal

> laney-

> > ---but...... How long have you been together-----Heres my view

> > > Number one ----opposites attracked----attract or something like

> > that----anyways----so im a positve and hes a negative---- or

maybe

> im

> > trying to say dominate and submissive---okay >> and im not

saying

> > like S & M or anthing like that---it just seems to me that after 18

> > years of marriage---im the giver and hes the taker/reciever. We

did

> > what he wanted where he wanted and im not saying that i didnt

like

> it

> > or anything------but there comes a time in every woman life ----

> WHEN

> > THEY SAY HEY!!!! WHAT ABOUT ME?????

> > > Yes its self centered and a tad selfish-----but a womans got

> needs

> > to!!!!! RIGHT?????------

> > > Another thing is what happened to romance----hell i dont have

to

> > even call it romance-----Im talking about some down to earth

> > shattering kisses and for-play-----ya know what i mean?????? Its

> > like spit and hit-----what the hell is up with that-----I mean

> grope

> > my breast like you mean it-----not like your mixing hamburger-----

> > > Now dh says----you need to loose your weight-----and that would

> > make me want to persue you more-(GIRL----I WANTED TO PUT HIM

> THROUGH

> > THE SECOND FLOOR WALL AND LET HIM DROP)---But i said-----Our

oldest

> > daughter is 19 years old---for 19 years i have weighed the same

> > andits just now dawned on you im overweight???? Anways that was

> about

> > 2 years ago or maybe not quite that long ago-----Sometimes i

think

> we

> > had so much sex we are just sexed out----lol-----now its like he

> > dosent know if he should approach me and well gee i still jiggle--

--

> > so i would want to offend him-------Dont you hate when they say

> > things in a fit of anger---and then when all is over and youve

made

> > up-----they say oh i didnt mean that-------STICKS AND STONES MAY

> > BREAK MY BONES BUT WORDS WILL NEVER HARM ME-----ALL LIES!!!!!

> > > Kimber---who is fighting that darned headache---maybe it

sexuall

> > frustration....lol

> > >

> > > Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil

OT

> > >

> > >

> > > I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

> > > me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

> > > you said once things got a little heated then it was

> > > fine. Tammi

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > =====

> > > " Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your

life,

> > but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your

darkest

> > hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

> > >

> > > __________________________________________________

> > >

[Guest guest]

I dont think that ang----Heres what i think----I think we all get

comfortable------to comfortable and take each other for granted. I have gone

over and over this and im thikning that with having our own business my working

with him and him working with me----Were with each other way to much----From

1993 to 1996 I worked a mid-night shift and then some----when he was getting

into bed i was leaving for work and when he came home i was sleeping-----

We would have to actually plan to have time together or would have to steal time

away----it was nothing for me to be hanging clothes in the closet and because we

hadnt seen each other---to plop right there and do it-----awww those were the

days. he did service work and was able to drop by when he was close to the

house. He use to tell me how he and the girls would stand at the door and watch

me sleep-----cause as with him they were at school when i was home asleep ----i

will say being on night shift allowed me to drop the kids off at school and i

could tuck them in at night and go to work. With me going to school now im

hoping to get back into the work force and let him have his business------but at

the same time still help him with it>>>maybe the time apart will give us a

spark----spouses working together is not a great idea

I think we just take each other for granted that all------

kimber/southfl

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

> >

> >

> > I found that Paxil and Zoloft did the same thing to

> > me. I didnt have any desire and need for sex but as

> > you said once things got a little heated then it was

> > fine. Tammi

> >

> >

> >

> > =====

> > " Most people want to be the sun that brightens up your life,

> but I'd rather be the moon that shines down on you in your darkest

> hours. " -submitted by Anonymous

> >

> > __________________________________________________

> >

[Guest guest]

-----So i got this bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

> kimber

>

Kimber,

Well, one point is .... IT BURNS ALOT OF CALORIES ) I know this

is simplistic, but have you tried communicating with him... I did

that a long time ago and it really helped, but then again, i got a

great guy )

Joanne

[Guest guest]

well, you can always use it as a cardio workout! Don't tell him your

doing it just to burn calories! i know that's bad... and from a

minister's wife too!! I better be quiet now.....

Joanne

> umm.yeah hell discuss it when im 30 pounds lighter-----end of

discussion----and this is his reply not mine to you...lol

> kimber/southfl

> Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

>

> -----So i got this bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

> > kimber

> >

>

> Kimber,

> Well, one point is .... IT BURNS ALOT OF CALORIES ) I know

this

> is simplistic, but have you tried communicating with him... I did

> that a long time ago and it really helped, but then again, i got

a

> great guy )

> Joanne

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

lo....yeah but see heres the think----I have tried to get him to joind a gym

with me----Not Happenen and his reply was well when you get down to

150------maybe----then i thought okay---how about playing tennis hell ill even

play some basket ball-----w-e-l-l- my knees arent what they used to be-----

and yes i have tried the burn calories thing. I have finally decided he dosent

like to do the work---are you ladies follwoing me on this---cause i dont wont to

get to graphic here....lol

HES JUST DOWN RIGHT LAZY AT HOME-----Thats the bottom line----before it was just

in home maint -------listen

im gonna stop cause my blood pressure is risen i can feel it

lol

kimber

Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

>

>

>

> -----So i got this bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

> > kimber

> >

>

> Kimber,

> Well, one point is .... IT BURNS ALOT OF CALORIES ) I know

this

> is simplistic, but have you tried communicating with him... I did

> that a long time ago and it really helped, but then again, i got

a

> great guy )

> Joanne

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

LOL. No, it's ok for US to do it to burn caloires...it's just not ok

for them to tell us to do it to burn calories :-)

Ang

> well, you can always use it as a cardio workout! Don't tell him

your

> doing it just to burn calories! i know that's bad... and from a

> minister's wife too!! I better be quiet now.....

> Joanne

>

>

> > umm.yeah hell discuss it when im 30 pounds lighter-----end of

> discussion----and this is his reply not mine to you...lol

> > kimber/southfl

> > Re: Ang......Prozac OR Paxil OT

> >

> >

> >

> > -----So i got this bitter attitude---WHATS THE POINT

> > > kimber

> > >

> >

> > Kimber,

> > Well, one point is .... IT BURNS ALOT OF CALORIES ) I know

> this

> > is simplistic, but have you tried communicating with him... I

did

> > that a long time ago and it really helped, but then again, i

got

> a

> > great guy )

> > Joanne

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

>I have finally decided he dosent like to do the work---are you

ladies follwoing me on this---cause i dont wont to get to graphic

here....lol

> HES JUST DOWN RIGHT LAZY AT HOME

.....Well, on the bright side at least you can catch him --- mine is

non stop moving....only when he's asleep or in the proccess of

getting there can I catch him.

Ang