Non-BPD question

[Guest guest]

Hey Everyone,

This isnt really a BPD question, more of I need advice type question, cause i

feel i have no where else to turn. My wife and I have been trying to get

pregnant since the summer with no luck yet. I know these things can take a

while, and I understand that, but she is getting upset with it all and feeling

that there is something wrong with us. We have been dealing with this just

fine, and we are going to start going to a doctor to make sure everything is

working properly, and that it is just a matter of time. Today however, I got an

opportunity to travel to Taiwan for 3 weeks in January/February. This is an

incredible opportunity to see a part of the world i would probably not ever be

able to see. My wife is mad that i would even consider this with everythning

going on here, and that would mean another month of not being able to get

pregnant. It isnt an option for her to some with cause she is a teacher. Does

anyone have any advice on what i should

do here? On one hand, i feel i missing a great opportunity to travel, and on

the other, my wife does not want me to go and wants us to figure out the

pregnancy situation.

Thanks for your help!

T