How mant people stood up to their nadas?

[Guest guest]

hello Grace,

I have been standing up to her for years and cannot decide if the treatment I

underwent was a cause or an effect of my " attitude " . The most painful on a long

list was when seeing her after a 10 yr physical absence and 5yr NC, she said " I

fine combed your life after receiving your letter (I do not want to have any

more contact with you) and I said to myself that I had been too soft on you and

your father was very hard and too protective " well that puts it in a nutshell,

he's been dead for 17 years and can no longer speak for himself, let's ditch her

behaviour on the dead! Why in the name of anything sane would I have not wanted

to see her because of my dead and really loved dad?

So let's swim around in confused, murkey waters and I will still stand true to

my heart

Love

TC