Re: Shari's husband, Lea's husband

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Patty

That is a great question..... I am not sure.... was like pulling teeth to get him on camera for the MTV thing... has offered, though, many times to talk to other men on the phone having issues with newly diagnosed wives, etc..... Not sure about the writing thing - I do however think it is very important as it has seriously affected his life..... I will ask.... just a sec

Actually just did..... he is well educated but not into writing/typing but I am....said he would be very happy to contribute as it does need to be heard if I can write as he maybe narrated what he feels if we did have something lined up..... any ideas there? I'd be happy to do it anyways - for future reference..... it does need to be heard.... he has been thru soooo much w/ me..... he really could contribute a lot to the story...

let me know....

I have a good pic.... i will send it to you..... - we have know each other for so long, patty.....

check you private messages....

love

shari

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Shari . . . Your hubby is a champ! . . . Please give him a hug from all of us! Maybe you could tape his comments . . . interview like? (That would be tough, since it's such a personal and painful issue.) . . .But I'm thinking that it's something that could grow into a book that would help many get through messes like this. There are some websites dedicated to helping people self-publish . . . There was a guy on NPR a few years ago who talked about these groups . . . They are like a support group. They'll tell you what you need to do to get there! You don't need to be accepted by a publishing house to sell a lot of books! Hugs, Rogene halvey70@... wrote: Patty That is a great question..... I am not sure.... was like pulling teeth to get him on camera for the MTV thing... has offered, though, many times to talk to other men on the phone having issues with newly diagnosed wives, etc..... Not sure about the writing thing - I do however think it is very important as it has seriously affected his life..... I will ask.... just a sec Actually just did..... he is well educated but not into writing/typing but I am....said he would be very

happy to contribute as it does need to be heard if I can write as he maybe narrated what he feels if we did have something lined up..... any ideas there? I'd be happy to do it anyways - for future reference..... it does need to be heard.... he has been thru soooo much w/ me..... he really could contribute a lot to the story... let me know.... I have a good pic.... i will send it to you..... - we have know each other for so long, patty..... check you private messages.... love shari

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thanks rogene

actually Rogene

He wouldn't have an issue talking about it at all..... think his issue was doing it w/ numerous large cameras & people he didn't know... don't get me wrong - the MTV girls were great..... it was just weird for him - strangely not for me... Thought it would be. I will talk to him about it as he was rather interested after our conversations yesterdays as yes - he has been thru a lot......we met but we not fating in 1996 b4 i got the implants - he said I was crarzy.....shoulda listened....started dating shortly after - then he has been thru h#$lll.

I was thinking yesterday after the conversations ... I think I may know what went wrong there.... if anyone remembers the original time they were looking for candidates for the show ? they 26 and under..... they contacted me after reading my story on the group... I said - I am NOT 26 or under - I am 32...... at the time they really started getting serious I was 33.

They emailed me again about the "famous face show" and I again reminded them of my age...... they asked for a pic..... i sent one...... not that anyone remembers this but I am the only one in the second series that has my name and location at the beginning but not my age.... they said I looked under 26 so they were goin w/ it and not revealing my age.....

the more I got ad yesterday about the interview w/ scott thing I started thinking...he does look his age..... he is 4 yrs older than me.... wonder if that was an issue? he was 37 when they did the filming....not a bad thing by by means - just does alot of work outside..... he is blonde/green but looks older than me in the face for sure..... they showed a lot of Logan... just not him.... hmmmmmm

shari

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also-

just for the heck of it

still have great relationships w/ the mtv [people who came here... still check on me from time top time.... will send them a note and see what happens.... they are also affiliated w/. VH1 and other programs as well......some of you younger girls may have watched the hulk hogan reality show on VHI.... the producer there was mine fro my show....... cool

anyways

wouldn't hurt.....

shari

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Lea,Congradulations on your home sale . . . and new computer! . . . You'll love it! . . . I know you've been enjoying your family too! . . . You certainly have had a lot of changes this past year! . . . Once you get through the Dow meeting, things should let up considerably! . . . Let's pray that, by this time next year, this last year will seem like a distant memory!Love,Rogene

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thanks Patty

I will look into some of this when the drama dies down a little here.....

I am sure will apprecialte the compliment!! I only wish I still looked like that!! (less the implants of course - yuck!!! - that wasa bout 20 lbs ago....) we will see... this new epilepsy med is supposed to cause weight loss.... that would be great.

getting my hair done for the first time in forever tonight..... i have SOOOOO many grays since this mess happened.... weird... lookin' like a grandma here w/ a 5 yr old!! hehe. then i couldn't color it due to the head injury - that woulda hurt!!!... i was just doing it myself....that was a mess in itself.... is gonna be nice to get a decent cut for a change!! sheesh - gonna be nice to leave the house for a change!! got lots of split ends....

gonna get a little pampered tonite - I deserve it I think. I can't wait. My hair is really long now Patty... you have not seen it since sun Valley... is half way down my back.... the way it was when and I were dating... actually was even longer then to my bottom. Just getting it trimmed now. Gonna keep it long for a while - makes me feel a little younger....may even go crazy and get some highlights.... why not!! geez - it is probably 8-9 inches longer than when they did the MTV taping now.... likes it much better long... don't all men????

anyways

thanks again!!

love shari