Re: just found out my dad did something heinous to my mom when they were first married

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i used to have a boyfriend who would stop the car sporadically and

order me out. it was always with someone else in the car. he would

park and refused to drive, saying he wouldn't go until i got out. i

never got out because it was just soooooo humiliating. i was like,

FINE! WE CAN JUST SIT HERE! i don't know how i kept from bawling

every time. eventually he would get bored and start driving again...

i guess he thought, " what's a battle of will between friends? "

people later told me that they were impressed how i " never let him get

to you. " wtf?

anyway, yeah. it's extra-mean.

bink

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> My father is the one with BPD. I got my mom " Walking on Eggshells "

and " I

> Hate you, don't leave me " and she started reading tonight and we started

> talking about it. She told me this...

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> THey got married and moved out of the city to another state. I

don't think

> my mom drove at that time. He used to stop the car and tell her to get

> out... and leave her there. He'd come back for her always, but he

left her

> there. They were both young (22 or so) and she was living away from

home

> for the first time.

> And she was ASHAMED! It isn't her shame, its his!

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> I can't even digest this.

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