just found out my dad did something heinous to my mom when they were first married

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My father is the one with BPD. I got my mom " Walking on Eggshells " and " I

Hate you, don't leave me " and she started reading tonight and we started

talking about it. She told me this...

THey got married and moved out of the city to another state. I don't think

my mom drove at that time. He used to stop the car and tell her to get

out... and leave her there. He'd come back for her always, but he left her

there. They were both young (22 or so) and she was living away from home

for the first time.

And she was ASHAMED! It isn't her shame, its his!

I can't even digest this.