Guest guest Posted July 17, 2006 Report Share Posted July 17, 2006 Lea and everyone, Thank you. I passed this info along to my friend. I would hate to see her get these implants, because she is so healthy, beautiful, vibrant and wonderful. I'd hate to see even a bit of that erode. Anyway, is there an easy way to scratch up that long article online? If not, I'll be happy to dig around for it. Thanks! Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2006 Report Share Posted July 18, 2006 Naw, he told her she would be part of a study. I said that it meant that the implant company would be using her body as a guinea pig. She was seriously info-gathering and willing to hear about it. I don't know how it will turn out, but she has already paid her money, which makes it tough to back out of, especially when it is easy to view my problems as something that may not happen to her. I invited her to join the forum. Thank you for all the replies that I have gotten. I did fwd them to her. Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2006 Report Share Posted August 9, 2006 Well, thanks for asking. I sent her information, including some wonderful posts from this forum (thank you to everybody!). I'd like to think what I sent was helpful-enough, scientific-enough, thoughtful-enough, just-plain-enough to help her get some awareness and save herself and back out of the surgery. I sent her research I did on surgeons who will do just a lift without implants (there are plenty out there!), including before-and-after photos, diagramatic descriptions of how the lift is done, etc.... She has GREAT tissue for a lift only -- she could probably be lifted and be a C cup, which sounds like a no-brainer to me, as I am a AA. I also sent information on the implants, the FDA games, and silicone sickness, including some personal accounts from people here, not to mention explantation.com. I didn't hear one thing back from her. I assume she is going to go ahead anyway. They have been out of town a lot. I plan on asking her what is up when I next see her without husband or kids. There is a line between being helpful and being so invested that one is co-dependent ( and that is one of my toxic issues) and I have to be careful where I stand emotionally in this instance. I am already anticipating having to get a grip on my emotions when she comes back from guinea pig surgery. Like so many of us, she may not get the big picture until the big picture has harmed her. I pray this is not the case for her. Before I got sick from my implants (they were in one year, and I seemed to have a real inflammatory kind of reaction that has reduced quite well so far) I had plans to go to graduate school for Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture. I am feeling so good already that I plan on entering the program next May. Sadly, I'm counting this as good practice for me to not do the whole co-dependent thing. I know I am going to have patients who blow off my insight as well, or come across people I KNOW I could successfully help treat who won't help themselves. Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 Sounds great about your future education plans! I would have loved to been a doctor, but I don't think I could have handled the politics. Dawnsusan <dawnsusan@...> wrote: Well, thanks for asking. I sent her information, including some wonderful posts from this forum (thank you to everybody!).I'd like to think what I sent was helpful-enough, scientific-enough, thoughtful-enough, just-plain-enough to help her get some awareness and save herself and back out of the surgery.I sent her research I did on surgeons who will do just a lift without implants (there are plenty out there!), including before-and-after photos, diagramatic descriptions of how the lift is done, etc.... She has GREAT tissue for a lift only -- she could probably be lifted and be a C cup, which sounds like a no-brainer to me, as I am a AA.I also sent information on the implants, the FDA games, and silicone sickness, including some personal accounts from people here, not to mention explantation.com.I didn't hear one thing back from her. I assume she is going to go ahead anyway. They have been out of town a lot. I plan on asking her what is up when I next see her without husband or kids.There is a line between being helpful and being so invested that one is co-dependent ( and that is one of my toxic issues) and I have to be careful where I stand emotionally in this instance. I am already anticipating having to get a grip on my emotions when she comes back from guinea pig surgery. Like so many of us, she may not get the big picture until the big picture has harmed her. I pray this is not the case for her.Before I got sick from my implants (they were in one year, and I seemed to have a real inflammatory kind of reaction that has reduced quite well so far) I had plans to go to graduate school for Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture. I am feeling so good already that I plan on entering the program next May.Sadly, I'm counting this as good practice for me to not do the whole co-dependent thing. I know I am going to have patients who blow off my insight as well, or come across people I KNOW I could successfully help treat who won't help themselves. Dawn Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2006 Report Share Posted August 10, 2006 Dawn, Wow..you go girl! You are so lucky that you only had them for a year...and got smart and had them removed! That is awesome that you are feeling so much better. You sound really educated and excited to learn. I know that you will be good at helping lots of people, Congratulations on planning to enter program! Maybe I will come and see you, to get better! ) hugs, julie ~ married to DH Mark, and sharing the lives of nine busy children. <3 <3 Re: Re: Anyone have info on the "gummibear" implants?? A friend is Sounds great about your future education plans! I would have loved to been a doctor, but I don't think I could have handled the politics. Dawnsusan <dawnsusanbellsouth (DOT) net> wrote: Well, thanks for asking. I sent her information, including some wonderful posts from this forum (thank you to everybody!).I'd like to think what I sent was helpful-enough, scientific-enough, thoughtful-enough, just-plain-enough to help her get some awareness and save herself and back out of the surgery.I sent her research I did on surgeons who will do just a lift without implants (there are plenty out there!), including before-and-after photos, diagramatic descriptions of how the lift is done, etc.... She has GREAT tissue for a lift only -- she could probably be lifted and be a C cup, which sounds like a no-brainer to me, as I am a AA.I also sent information on the implants, the FDA games, and silicone sickness, including some personal accounts from people here, not to mention explantation.com.I didn't hear one thing back from her. I assume she is going to go ahead anyway. They have been out of town a lot. I plan on asking her what is up when I next see her without husband or kids.There is a line between being helpful and being so invested that one is co-dependent ( and that is one of my toxic issues) and I have to be careful where I stand emotionally in this instance. I am already anticipating having to get a grip on my emotions when she comes back from guinea pig surgery. Like so many of us, she may not get the big picture until the big picture has harmed her. I pray this is not the case for her.Before I got sick from my implants (they were in one year, and I seemed to have a real inflammatory kind of reaction that has reduced quite well so far) I had plans to go to graduate school for Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture. I am feeling so good already that I plan on entering the program next May.Sadly, I'm counting this as good practice for me to not do the whole co-dependent thing. I know I am going to have patients who blow off my insight as well, or come across people I KNOW I could successfully help treat who won't help themselves. Dawn Messenger with Voice. Make PC-to-Phone Calls to the US (and 30+ countries) for 2¢/min or less. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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