Lily Pad Hotcakes, new member

[Guest guest]

well sorry to have offended you. as i also have a parent that is BPD & wanting

to learn more about this disorder; that is why i am on this board 1st &

foremost. I will not post should it offend you but i would like to remain on the

board as it helps me to understand & cope with this mental disorder. I must be

one of the select few newly dx BPD who wish to know more so that I can help

myself along with my parent that is BPD. Thank you. if you could point me in the

direction of those other boards i will gladly look into them & post there

instead of here. agian sorry to have offended you. if there are others who feel

the same way please let me know & i will remove myself from the board. I am sure

like every1 here we are all looking for support & peer advice not here to offend

any1. thank you

Lily Pad Hotcakes, new member

From: anuria-67854@...

Dear List Owner,

At your Group:

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOAdultChildren1/?yguid=323760905

In message #85132, new member " Lily Pad Hotcakes " writes that she herself has

bpd.

Since this Group is for the non-BPD offspring of BPD parents, would you let her

know that there are other Groups for BPDs who are also the offspring of BPD

parents?

Thanks,

Annie

[Guest guest]

Dear List Owner,

At your Group:

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOAdultChildren1/?yguid=323760905

In message #85132, new member " Lily Pad Hotcakes " writes that she herself has

bpd.

Since this Group is for the non-BPD offspring of BPD parents, would you let her

know that there are other Groups for BPDs who are also the offspring of BPD

parents?

Thanks,

Annie

[Guest guest]

It is I who need to apologize to you, Lily.

I thought I had posted that message to the list-owner privately, but

it was (obviously) not a private message. I thought that as a bpd,

you would find a lot of the anger, anguish, suffering and blame RE our

bpd parents we post about here offensive to *you.* So, I asked the

list owner to give you the address of the WTO Group that is for bpd's

who are also the adult children of bpds; I'm pretty sure there is one.

I think the Group called " On The Border " listed at BPD Central:

http://www.bpdcentral.com/links/bps_nonbps.shtml#bps

is for those with bpd.

I for one am still working through a lot of anger issues towards my

bpd mom, and I have very strong opinions about not exposing children

to bpds, so as long as you're aware that those kinds of problems and

feelings are discussed here, then, that's your choice.

-Annie

>

> well sorry to have offended you. as i also have a parent that is BPD

& wanting to learn more about this disorder; that is why i am on this

board 1st & foremost. I will not post should it offend you but i would

like to remain on the board as it helps me to understand & cope with

this mental disorder. I must be one of the select few newly dx BPD who

wish to know more so that I can help myself along with my parent that

is BPD. Thank you. if you could point me in the direction of those

other boards i will gladly look into them & post there instead of

here. agian sorry to have offended you. if there are others who feel

the same way please let me know & i will remove myself from the board.

I am sure like every1 here we are all looking for support & peer

advice not here to offend any1. thank you

> Lily Pad Hotcakes, new member

> From: anuria-67854@...

>

> Dear List Owner,

>

> At your Group:

http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/WTOAdultChildren1/?yguid=323760905

>

> In message #85132, new member " Lily Pad Hotcakes " writes that she

herself has bpd.

>

> Since this Group is for the non-BPD offspring of BPD parents, would

you let her

> know that there are other Groups for BPDs who are also the offspring

of BPD parents?

>

> Thanks,

>

> Annie

>