Guest guest Posted December 2, 2008 Report Share Posted December 2, 2008 I'm 7 months pregnant and my BPD mother pretty much invited herself to be in the room when i deliver my baby. However, I'm pretty sure I'd rather she wasn't, because her very nature has a way of stressing me out. I know she will be in my face, and will try to coach me instead of allowing my boyfriend to. I tried to hint to her a couple of times that I want it just to be my boyfriend and I, but all she says is " I'll respect whatever you want when it happens. " What she doesn't understand is that I don't even want her in the room to begin with. I don't want to have to stress over how to kick her out when I can't deal with her anymore while im in such an already stressed state. My boyfriend and I have talked about me saying a code word to signal him to arrange for the doctors to ask my mother to leave, and just blame them, but I'm afraid if it comes down to that, it will all end up being about her. Does anyone have any advice for me? Am I a horrible person? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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