Guest guest Posted December 6, 2008 Report Share Posted December 6, 2008 I am really confused. I had an upsetting phone conversation with my mom about my Thanksgiving plans (you may remember that post). She bashed my husband really badly and brought up a million things from the past. I was very angry after that, and I wrote my mom a letter at my Therapist's suggestion. The letter says that there are some things I would like to see change in our relationship. There are three main things: 1. I want the conversations we have to be more equal, not all about her. 2. I won't listen to her bash my husband. I will hang up without warning. 3. I am no one's custody, and I want her to treat me like an adult and not a child. So, the past two conversations I've had with her have been really nice. She hasn't been mad, she hasn't re-hashed old things a million times. It's been really cool. So now I'm doubting myself. Do I send the letter? Is the problem solved without me sending the letter? The thing that is really difficult with my mom is that she is hot and cold...fine in several conversations, then bammo! She's not ok with me anymore. I don't know if she is going to be ok with me when I call or not. Anyway, I'm just thinking on paper mostly here. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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