I desperately want my own family, but I fear ending up with a woman like my nada

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Anyone else have trouble rebuilding their lives after they go NC? For

me, I went NC after a great relationship came to a crashing end

because of nada. So, within a month, I lost my girlfriend and my

FOO. While my nada was crazy, I did enjoy spending time with my other

family members.

Now, even though I have what I call " crazydar " (a radar for the

crazies) I still end up with women who are unstable. I'm not sure if

I'm drawn to them or what? I know there is a natural draw as my

paternal grandfather married a borderline, and my father married a

borderline (my nada).

I'm now eager to build my own family, but I want to break the cycle.

Any suggestions???

-Rod